theclash Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 my ex John broke up with me almost a year ago (March 05), but back in june 05 he kept leading me on, telling me he loves me, inviting me to stay the night at his house, asking me to give him hand jobs, head etc. I was still hung up on him, so I thought we were back together. Nope..... We went out for 3 1/2 months on and off. We never had sex cos i wasn't ready, but I really liked him. However I have a boyfriend now called Dan, weve been together for 6 months and im so happy. The thing is John and Dan are mates, and my bf's brother also knows my ex. My bf's brother asked John my ex why things ended between us, and do you know what the prikc said? He said "I f***ed her then dumped her" The little toe rag. I'm a virgin for crying out loud! haha, in his dreams. I havent spoken to him or seen him since my bf told me what he said (we were friendly again) Is he really that thick to not realise that my bf's brother would of told Dan, and that my Dan would of told me? Even though my ex is in a relationship with a 40 yr old woman with kids my age (my ex is 20 like me), he's said some harsh things to my bf (i think he's jealous) One time me and my bf were both in the pub my ex used to work at, and my ex said to my bf "I was reading this problem this man wrote in to the mirror about his small codger, and i thought of you Dan" then john my ex asked me "has he got a big one?" and i replied "yes" I also said out aloud that I liked this black shirt that Dan was wearing, and john said to Dan "it'd be even nicer if you ironed it" Im really confused, he's moved on, but he keeps giving my bf really angry looks. Perhaps his ego is dented. One time I was sat on Dans lap, and John kept staring over at us from the bar. Do you think he's jealous?
WindDrifter Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 I think that would be an understatement. He obviously is jealous and never loved you otherwise he would be happy for you. Some people have this mindset "If I can't have you then neither will anyone else" He is just trying to make life difficult. You might even need to confront him. He sounds like he is acting like a kid so treat him like one. You be the adult and next time he starts acting up go and tell him. You had your chance and lost it. I never slept with you so stop spreading lies. Stop acting like a child and grow up. Really put him in his place. I believe its a best way if things don't change over time. Cheers, WD
Author theclash Posted February 16, 2006 Author Posted February 16, 2006 thanks. me and my bf have been trying to avoid him after what he said about me, but i think i will confront him. cheers wd
WindDrifter Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 No worries theClash. Just thought of a one liner "If you can't grow some balls and act like a man then F%^k off!" Thought that one might make him think twice. Cheers, WD p.s. Keep us updated of any change.
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