Ever find out that your online man's female friend is really his GF?

[sadfriend]

Has anyone ever had a crush on or fell in love with a guy online that you never met (he lives hundreds of miles away) and he told you that a female friend was just a friend only and then later you find out she is his GF?

 

His female "friend" lives only about 15 mins. from him so they do hang out in person together. He even goes as far as introducing you two females in a private chat. You start talking to what is suppose to be his female friend online on a regular basis almost as much as you talk to him. It seems like everytime you talk to her all she can talk about is your online man. Then all the sudden one day she talks like marriage is just around the corner for your online man and her. But when you talk to your online man, he is just says that his female "friend" is just making things up and that his female "friend" is a good person but he doesn't think that they could ever be married but just friends only. And your online man talks to you and your family members online and acts like he is going to come and visit you and that sometime shortly down the road you will be married.

 

Then all of the sudden one day your online man contacts you by messenger online and tells you that he is engaged to be married. And you ask to whom and he says, his female "friend". And he admits that his female "friend" was telling the whole truth.

 

Anyone ever have a similar situation happen to you, whether you are female or male? Would you share a little bit of your story?

[basscatcher]

I have been in a similiar situation and it sucks... I was burnt for the first time in my life I had my heart truly broken... It's a long story...

[RubixCube28]

Sorry to hear it's a screwed up suatation.. Some how people on line don't see this as a from of reality.. And I guess they think its fun to play with others feelings.. Because this is only a dream land or as in my case.. Was that the guy was just a plain nutter.. Eather way well my story was...I had met a guy on line in chat once.. We talked for a few monthes and he seamed decent..I came to find out he wasen't happy with his home life.. So me being the nice and nieve person I was back then.. Invited him to come stay with me and my room mate for a while.. So I ended up traveling like 4 states to go get this person.. And payed for his ticket with a shallow promise of renbersement.. When he got on his feet in my area ok well we get back home.. And he goes wakkkeyyy batss turns out hes really a mentily defect guy.. Who was marryed I know that cuz I had his case worker calling me.. I had the cops at my house and all what a flipping nightmear.. And turns out no one kept this mentil miget off the pc.. He was back on line soon as he got home.. Fishing again for a another victom he even had the b@lls.. To ask me for money after he got home yeah right LOL..Well any ways in a nut shell BE CAREFULL like 95%.. Of people on line are not on the level or honest.. Be happy be amazingly happy yours diden't get past the on line thing.. Good riddence to rubbish I say...

[littlekitty]

I'm truely sorry you've been hurt like that. What an awful person to do that to you.

 

But this does again highlight, the issue of dating long distance, ONLINE. You really can't know someone until you meet them in person and spend time with them in person. Lots of time.

 

Until you do, they can project any kind of person they want to you, and you'll believe it, because all you have is a 1-D view of that person. They'll only show you what you want to see.

 

Please ladies, think more carefully before investing time, money, and emotion in a cyber space relationship. That's the only place these relationships exist, in cyber space. They aren't real, palpable relationships, and someone, always, seems to get hurt.....