StarbrightSB Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Ok, theres my ever so romantic (NOT!) valentines day story. My boyfriend and I of almost 3 years, started dating exactly a week after valentines day. We have a friends wedding to go to this weekend, and he's leaving town next, so we kind of aggreed to celebrate v-day and the 3 years together in one date, which we're doing on saturday. Origionally, we hadn't had anything special planned for v-day, but it kind of made me sad. So i went out and did hours of research finding a romantic evening, and i finally did. I ran it through with him last week, and he said he was really excited to go out and everything. I paid $60 for tickets, and i'm a university student and really can't afford that, but i thought it would be a nice evening! Dinner and dancing, and a stroll through these indoor greenhoses, etc. So on saturday, we went out, but kind of ended on a sour note. Basically, he was being a huge jerk, and was doing things that i had told him bothered me. He knew what he was doing was a uge invasion of my privacy, and that i had asked him not to about a hundred times. Anyhow, I was ticked on saturday, and when he left, he didnt even bother trying to kiss me goodnight. Yes i was a bit upset at that too! So he hadn't bothered calling me at all after saturday. I didnt call him either, which seems immature, but it seems like i'm the one putting in al of the effort lately! Over that last month, he's called me 4 times, and its usually cause we have plans. So basically, He knows i was upset, and he knows that we had big plans on tuesday, but he didnt call. So i get this call from him on tuesday at 5 o clock, PM. He keeps asking me what i'm doing that evening, and all this garble, and he said that "i think i should probably stop by since its valentines day". I finally remind him that, Hey we had big plans, DUH! They started at 7, and he was off work at 7, but we were suppose to meet there after he got off work, but he completely forgot about them. So i got really upset, and i said not to even bother eith them anymore. So he e-mailed me at 6 i this attempt to try to getme to go. IN my mind, i was upset that i had out i that much effort TRYING to make things romantic, and he couldnt even bother to remember. I know we could have kept the plans, but i was devistated and i knew that i wouldnt enjoy myself. I asked him not to call me, because everytime hescrews up, he goes on for about an hour about how sorry he is and how terrible he feels, and then he exects me to just feel better and give it up. I explained this (through e-mail). So, no phone call (even though he signed the e-mail "i'll talk to you later"), but i am not blaming him for that because i asked him not to. I just feel like garbage, and i think if the situation were reversed, i would be trying damn near everything to make it up to him. But so far, nothing. What do you guys think about this? I won't be around tomorrow night to talk to him, then were suppose to go to a wedding together this friday. Am i just over reaction and being nasty and rude, or am i justified in being upset? I know i am not going to be able to act normal on friday, but i just don;t see how i can forgive him! He's great with words, so its his actinos that mean more to me, but i'm getting nothing! Help!
Recommended Posts