MatchstickFear Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 he called AGAIN. the first time he called, i didn't recognize the number - so i answered - ugh. This time, I recognized the number - didn't answer, but he left a message on my machine. He said "I'm just calling to tell you goodnight ____ (<-- enter "special nickname" here)." i want him to STOP trying to contact me. but I don't want to have to keep ignoring his calls, and listening to his messages. at the same time, i don't want to have to contact him, or his family, to get him to stop. it's only happened three times in the past two days (after a few months of NC) ... but I just fear that me being "civil" with him on the phone when he unexpectadly called was taken as me being "okay" with him calling. I suppose i should just wait it out and hope that he goes away, huh? F*CKER! <--- that's all I got to say about that
No Foolin Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Or.....You could hang up on him the second you hear his voice. One thing I learned in my travels is: "silence is devestating". No Foolin
skeptik224 Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Someone once posted - "Silence is the most profound goodbye you'll never hear"
Guest Posted February 19, 2006 Posted February 19, 2006 My ex broke up with me 8 months ago - when I tried contacting him to be able to get my things back from his house he refused to answer my calls. I showed up at his house got my things and never heard from him again. I was not going to beg but I was heartbroken. For 6 months I took it hard - had one relapse when I sent him a xmas card. He emailed me asking me how I was doing. I wrote back simply "Great - nice to hear from you, take care!". Then that was it. SUDDENLY tonight he calls me at 9:55 PM - I have caller ID so I didn't answer his calls - didn't even have my answering machine on. I just let it rang. SHOCKED to see his name on caller ID. Then my cell phone starts ringing.....but he didn't leave a message. THEN 40 minutes later he drives by my house (I had all the lights out as if I wasn't home). How dare he just think he can pop back into my life and come over - I'm sure he hasn't found a new girlfriend and wanted a booty call. I'm disgusted with him and was so hurt after our breakup. I refuse to acknowledge him - and reading your posts about SILENCE - I think that is the way to go. Let the jerk see how it feels to be ignored!!!! This at least has given me closure and made me feel good - he obviously misses me. I didn't think he gave a damn at all and suffered for months wondering why he dumped me and actually wanted him back...........not anymore.
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