Guest Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 I am in a long distance relationship right now we've been together 5 months, Im head over heels in love with this guy (he has been a friend for 6 years) and the other night my friends took me out because I havnt drank in about 3 months. I got free drinks all night and cant remember most of the night. There was a guy hitting on me hard and he ended up kissing me on the lips, Im not going to lie i was x-tremely tempted to kiss back but my boyfriend was in the back of my head the entire time. After stopping him the first few times it was about on the forth time that I kind of kissed back a bit, I know that there is no excuse for this and i should have walked away then and there, I feel so guilty for what I did, but I'm terrified of telling my boyfriend because I dont want to lose him and I will never ever put myself in this situation again. I am making excuses for myself but are there any reasons that I could keep this from him or should i tell him straight up
Elyssa Posted February 19, 2006 Posted February 19, 2006 I'd say you should be honest with him. Perhaps joke about it and tell him what you did that night and what happened, but don't act like you feel you did something wrong, because if you do, he will panic too. Of course if he feels that way straight out when you tell him, just drop the joke and try to apologize, but always making him understand the situation you were in: You were drunk, having fun, and the guy was a total stranger (right?)...nothing important happened. Good luck!
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