sara123 Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 My best friend of 9 years is going out with my brother. At first i put an end to it but i felt bad so i figured i would just date one of his friends as well, who turned out to be his best friend. This didn't last long, about a year, but my best friend and brother are still together. It has totally ruined my relationship with my brother as he would rather spend time with her, and i feel it is starting to ruin my relationship with my best friend as well. This is my brothers first girlfriend ever, and he is very controlling and posessive. He does not like it when she hangs out with me and he is not there. My parents live across the country and for about 5 years i triend to convince my best friend to move there with me and she said she was never going to move. Now my brother has asked her and they are gone. She asked me to go but i feel betrayed, like she wouldn't go with me but she went with him. Up until yesterday i had a bf to spend my time with but now i broke up with him and am worried whether or not i am going to get lonely. I don't know if i should just give in and pack up and move there or stay here by myself. I think if i did go there we would probably all fight anyway...any suggestions???
sazzya1987 Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Why are you trying to split them up? You know them both well enough to know they probably wont hurt each other, if they make each other happy why split them up? Why can you not be happy for them both that they are happily in love? If you are worried your friend wont see you as much then you should talk to her about it and maybe even arrange a day for just you and your friend to hang out without your brother around.
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