carmaenforcer Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Just wanted to tell the world that I married the woman I love.
JamesM Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 May you have the strength to remember that feeling of love when the times get tough. May you remember that you stated a vow in front of friends, family, and above all..God..stating that you will love her better or worse. Enjoy all of the good times that will come your way, and forget all of the bad times...but learn from them. I wish you the best. Read these threads to know what to do and not do. Remember, marriage is for better and forever.
Author carmaenforcer Posted February 16, 2006 Author Posted February 16, 2006 Thank you for the beautiful encouraging post JamesM. If you read any of my contributions to the some of the threads on this site you will see that going through and overcoming bad times is my specialty. My Wife asked me after the wedding, if I felt any different. I stated that I did not and she reciprocated the feeling. We then both said in unison, "it's because we have already been married", and we laughed about how it was funny that we both said that at the same time. But I truly believe that this statement should be true of all couples before having their wedding ceremony. You should be married way before you plan the wedding. You should already be as faithful, honest, devoted, caring, selfless, etc. as you plan on being with this person that you love with all your heart. Now the true test, overcoming life's pitfalls together and hopefully raising a family. I look forward to charring the good times and helping each other through he bad times. Thank you again for taking the time to come on here and say the nice things you said.
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 This is the nicest thread I've ever seen on this site. Congratulations.
Curmudgeon Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 My wife and I visited my priest before we married and talked with him about it (me being a formerly divorced Catholic). After he spoke with us for awhile he looked at us and said, "You're already married. You two have a marriage of conscience!" Then he blessed that marriage. It sounds as if you and your wife have the same. Congratulations and I hope you have every joy!
Ladyjane14 Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 After he spoke with us for awhile he looked at us and said, "You're already married. You two have a marriage of conscience!" Then he blessed that marriage. That's the BEST start to a marriage I've ever heard! Weirdly now that you mention it, when I married my husband I remember feeling like I didn't really make a decision about it. It seemed to be an already-made one. Maybe that's why. Anyway, congratulations to you and your bride, Carmaenforcer.
RecordProducer Posted February 17, 2006 Posted February 17, 2006 Congratulations! I got married 2.5 months ago and it feels great.
Author carmaenforcer Posted February 21, 2006 Author Posted February 21, 2006 Thanx all.. Right back at ja, RecordProducer. 2.5 months, wow. Only a life time to go. hehe Ladyjane14, your statement is so true, "I didn't really make a decision about it. It seemed to be an already-made one." If I may add, it is a decision that you have to make and remake every day of your life. It's the fact that we do have a choice of whether to be with someone or not and we keep choosing to be with them that makes it so special. We are not stuck we choose to stick. The night right before our wedding my then Fiancée, got drunk with a small group of her girl friends and got so stupid that I was going to just call the whole thing off. She apologized and we went on with the wedding. After the ceremony, I told the MOH,a nd later repeated it to my Wife, how I was glad that we had to go through the drama we went through right before taking that big step because it helped to reaffirm my decision. My Wife told me she was thinking the same thing. How much do I love you, enough to forgive? Yes, I do. And in her case, although the roles are interchangeable, how much do I love you, enough to say I'm sorry. Yes, I do.
Becoming Posted February 21, 2006 Posted February 21, 2006 CONGRATULATIONS AND BLESSINGS! An Irish wedding blessing for you: May your mornings bring joy and your evenings bring peace. May your troubles grow few as your blessings increase. May the saddest day of your future Be no worse than the happiest day of your past. May your hands be forever clasped in friendship And your hearts joined forever in love. Your lives are very special, God has touched you in many ways. May the Lord's blessings rest upon you And fill all your coming days.
NavyWifey Posted February 24, 2006 Posted February 24, 2006 awwwww... congrats! i married the man i love in september. i hope u 2 are as happy as we are!
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