Brianschick Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Can anyone else relate to this? I only let my OM go down on me and I absoultly WILL NOT allow my husband to. How messed up is that!. My husband loves to go down on me and asks all the time. We (me and the hubby) used to do that before we had our child but now I only want my OM to do that. As if that wasn't perverted enough, I only let my OM suck my breasts too.....go figure!
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Yes I can. I only let women who's name starts with an A have anal sex. I only let women who's name starts with B or J..... you get the picture.
scarletletter Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Well, since I don't have sex with my husband and only MM I cannot answer that. Husband and I have not had sex in over a year!!! TOP THAT!!
Lishy Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Can anyone else relate to this? I only let my OM go down on me and I absoultly WILL NOT allow my husband to. How messed up is that!. My husband loves to go down on me and asks all the time. We (me and the hubby) used to do that before we had our child but now I only want my OM to do that. As if that wasn't perverted enough, I only let my OM suck my breasts too.....go figure! Maybe you should divorce your husband and let him find a woman who will let her husband do things with her that she lets other guys do?
Lishy Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Yes I can. I only let women who's name starts with an A have anal sex. I only let women who's name starts with B or J..... you get the picture. :lmao: :lmao:
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Well, since I don't have sex with my husband and only MM I cannot answer that. Husband and I have not had sex in over a year!!! TOP THAT!! ???????????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????????????????????????? Whats up scarletletter?
Author Brianschick Posted February 16, 2006 Author Posted February 16, 2006 Scarletletter, And how on earth have you managed to not have sex with your husband that long?. Listen, I am aware that people who have not been through what I am going through are going to try and pass judgement, but really, if you haven't walked a mile in my shoes.....
Lishy Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 ???????????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????????????????????????? Whats up scarletletter? Not her husband!!!!!!! :p Sorry in advance SL
Lishy Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Scarletletter, And how on earth have you managed to not have sex with your husband that long?. Listen, I am aware that people who have not been through what I am going through are going to try and pass judgement, but really, if you haven't walked a mile in my shoes..... I wasnt judging you BC sorry if you took it that way!
scarletletter Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 He has no interest in me and I have no interest in him. Many, many, many things led up to this. We don't even go through the motions anymore. We are merely sharing a house right now and don't even sleep in the same bed. I know for a fact he is not having an affair so who knows what he is doing for sex, he certainly isn't interested in ME. Thank God! He will come up behind me and grope me from time to time...romantic, I know..lol. It never leads anywhere and I hope it stays that way. I mentioned in another post that I am in the middle of a 6 month plan....many things to take care of before I leave...trying to be financially smart.
scarletletter Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Good one, Lishy....and very true..and that's the way I hope it stays.
Lishy Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 He has no interest in me and I have no interest in him. Many, many, many things led up to this. We don't even go through the motions anymore. We are merely sharing a house right now and don't even sleep in the same bed. I know for a fact he is not having an affair so who knows what he is doing for sex, he certainly isn't interested in ME. Thank God! He will come up behind me and grope me from time to time...romantic, I know..lol. It never leads anywhere and I hope it stays that way. I mentioned in another post that I am in the middle of a 6 month plan....many things to take care of before I leave...trying to be financially smart. So you are not having an affair because you are not really still with your husband. It sounds like you are both mutual on this decision. You are right to be financially secure when you leave! So your OM isnt really your OM, he is your man!
scarletletter Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 So you are not having an affair because you are not really still with your husband. It sounds like you are both mutual on this decision. You are right to be financially secure when you leave! So your OM isnt really your OM, he is your man! MY GOD!!! Someone finally gets it!!!!!! I'm so excited. I have been trying to get this point across for a month now!! CONGRATULATIONS LISHY!! lol
Author Brianschick Posted February 16, 2006 Author Posted February 16, 2006 ok Lishy, I suspect there many other women are the same way their husbands if they have another man. I tried to fool myself into thinking I was only with the OM for sex...but I do like him more than that...not love but gret lust. I guess b/c of the lust factor I am willing to do whatever to keep him..sad but true
Walking away Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Odd.... Perhaps it is because you find that act more intimate than intercourse. And perhaps that intimacy has been replaced by your OM instead of your husband. I don't know, just a thought...
Lishy Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 ok Lishy, I suspect there many other women are the same way their husbands if they have another man. I tried to fool myself into thinking I was only with the OM for sex...but I do like him more than that...not love but gret lust. I guess b/c of the lust factor I am willing to do whatever to keep him..sad but true So you are doing this just to please your OM? You do not really like it but you feel too insecure to tell him this, but comfortable to tell your husband? is that right or did I get that wrong?
scarletletter Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 The way I understood it was that she enjoyed this but only from OM. Maybe he is just better at it.
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 So you are doing this just to please your OM? You do not really like it but you feel too insecure to tell him this, but comfortable to tell your husband? is that right or did I get that wrong? Lishy, you scare me. That is too insightful, even for me. Way to go. As for the OP, you need to be more honest. If you don't want your husband, tell him, you seem to be fine telling him what you don't want, finish the job.
cal gal Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Yes I can. I only let women who's name starts with an A have anal sex. I only let women who's name starts with B or J..... you get the picture. Sooooo WIT - If my name begins with an M then what would I get????? I am stumped
Lishy Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 The way I understood it was that she enjoyed this but only from OM. Maybe he is just better at it. I took it that she is so in lust with the OM that she will do what she can to keep him interested and that she does it out of fear of him losing interest. And that with her husband she has not got that fear of him leaving her, so she feels safe to say that she does not like it. Maybe I am wrong tho!!!!!!!!
Lishy Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Sooooo WIT - If my name begins with an M then what would I get????? I am stumped My name begins with K - Do I get a knee-trembler or a kiss? If it's a kiss do I decide where you kiss me?
scarletletter Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Interesting.....I don't know how anyone can actually have sex with 2 people and pretend to enjoy it with only one. I refuse to cheat on OM with my husband...how pathetic is that!!! Hmmmm, maybe i am loyal after all, never thought of it that way.
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Sooooo WIT - If my name begins with an M then what would I get????? I am stumped M = Member, masturbation, mammalian protruberances, mastication, and Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!! My name begins with K - Do I get a knee-trembler or a kiss? If it's a kiss do I decide where you kiss me? K= kiss ( my favourite, a la francais, sur le chat, et dans la derriere!), and to kiss a womans body, oh boy, anywhere you want.
Lishy Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Interesting.....I don't know how anyone can actually have sex with 2 people and pretend to enjoy it with only one. I refuse to cheat on OM with my husband...how pathetic is that!!! Hmmmm, maybe i am loyal after all, never thought of it that way. He is not really your husband anymore, only on paper .... You are not together and you do not pretend to be. It is not as if he still think you are both happy and he is unaware that there is a problem. I dont think you are doing anything wrong - You are just living together until you can part. You need to stop calling him your OM! Thats my opinion anyway
Author Brianschick Posted February 16, 2006 Author Posted February 16, 2006 I DO enjoy sex with the OM. THAT is the problem. I enjoy it too much with him and not AT ALL with my husband..unless I'm fantaziing about the OM. I suppose there is a tad bit of fear of abandonment with the OM..even though years ago when we had an A I was the one to end it....
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