Brianschick Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Can anyone else relate to this? I only let my OM go down on me and I absoultly WILL NOT allow my husband to. How messed up is that!. My husband loves to go down on me and asks all the time. We (me and the hubby) used to do that before we had our child but now I only want my OM to do that. As if that wasn't perverted enough, I only let my OM suck my breasts too.....go figure!
cal gal Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Sounds to me like you are punishing your hubby by holding back some goodies that he may enjoy. Seems very mean spirited to me as a spouse that should love the one they are married to. You are giving your sexual energy to the wrong man! I feel sorry for you and your husband - as you are not even on the same playing field.. i.e. you are not being fair to him!
cal gal Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Oh ya, I forgot to mention YOU are selfish! and should not be married!
whichwayisup Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 I actually think you need to post this in the OW/OM section. 9/10 this section is usually for people that were betrayed by their spouses. So if you want more input into this, go to that section.
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Hm... I disagree with the other posters. But you know, that does sound very, very PERVERTED! Is it because you think that you are "dirty" down there? I don't know your full story, so I can't explain it for you. When I found myself in love with another man, I would not let my husband kiss me on the lips and would always turn away so that the kiss would land on my cheek instead. At the time, I was just so grossed out by any PA with my husband because I couldn't love him.
Author Brianschick Posted February 16, 2006 Author Posted February 16, 2006 Knowhow: I never felt dirty down there. I don't even believe in the whole "dirty girl" slang. I don't know what it is...I suspect I'm just no in love w/ my hubby anymore and that is why I'll le the other man do those things Anyway, to those betrayed spouses I ticked off by posting here..sorry
cal gal Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Knowhow: I never felt dirty down there. I don't even believe in the whole "dirty girl" slang. I don't know what it is...I suspect I'm just no in love w/ my hubby anymore and that is why I'll le the other man do those things Anyway, to those betrayed spouses I ticked off by posting here..sorry I'm sorry - I guess you just want to move the thread at this point because you haven't gotten the response you intended to receive. Of course you are not in love with hubby right now - you are not putting any effort into his thoughts feelings, wants and needs. You are being very selfish and completely unfair to the man that has given his life and future for you. I feel sorry for him... Move the thread if you prefer.... we are all still here in the same place.... conviction heaven - with some sense of morals.... Hey, you are the one that has to look in the mirror ...
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Damn I caught the wrong bus!!!! See the other thread..........
Content10 Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 I agree w/you Cal Gal, she is very selfish. You should not be married. Are you thinking of him and all of the people that would be affected? I feel sorry for her husband too! You obviously married your husband because you loved him then. What you need to do is go back to that time and remember the things that made you fall in love with him. He deserves that and so do you.
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 I agree w/you Cal Gal, she is very selfish. You should not be married. Are you thinking of him and all of the people that would be affected? I feel sorry for her husband too! You obviously married your husband because you loved him then. What you need to do is go back to that time and remember the things that made you fall in love with him. He deserves that and so do you. Thats a really human post Content. Nice one.
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