theblade Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 hello to you all... i split up with my ex back in april 2005 after she cheated on me. I posted on here at that time telling everyone what i was going through, etc etc. I'll get straight to the point. It will hurt like mad when u split up, everyone knows that and to be brutaly honest, theres not a thing you will be able to do about it. The only thing that you need is time. Only thing is, most of the time you wish it would go quickly. Now, Its mid Feb....I went to watch Sheffield United play on Valentines night (a soccer team for all you non-Brits) and who should i bump into for the first time since we split?!..yup...my ex. I said hello to her, and i couldnt beleive that i didnt feel anything for her...nothing at all. She was there with her boyfriend, and i was like...i aint bothered..im here to watch a match. In fact im still quite shocked by my reaction to be honest. I honestly thought id be all butterflys in my stomatch and all that...but nothing..zip...didley squat! So..you see...there is light at the end of the tunnel!!! Im still looking for love...cos i like the search!...lots of fun!! If youve just split up, i felt that anti gf/bf songs helped me...if you wanna song to listen to..then try Robbie Williams song called Karma Killer...Download it, or buy it, then listen to it...its brilliant. (its on the "Ive been expecting you" album) Good luck to all...it all works out in the end.
WeaknPowerless Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 If someone could do me a huge favour and take these for me... I might be able to completely shake this. It's like going a 100km/h with your love and emotions and then throwing it in reverse...it doesn't work so hot. God I wish I felt indifferent towards her...
Tangerina Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Thanks, that is such a good point..... now that I am completely over my first real break up and with a new man who is wonderful, I wish I could have gone back and told my sad self just how great things were going to be on the other side... As you say, nothing could have helped except for time, but if I ever have to go through a devistating break up again (hopefully I won't, haha) I know it will never be quite as bad (well, a divorce would probably be worse, but lets not go there, hopefully wont have to do that either) because I am confidant in my ability to eventually move on.... I know everyone has this ability and me message to those who are hurting is to have faith in it and the fact that things do get better... it is natural and appropriate to be sad/devistated, but there is always light at the end of the tunnel....
Lonestar Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Fooled, don't worry. You're going to be okay.
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