CaliGuy Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Well my Christmas gifts finally arrived from the ex's family. (6 weeks late! haha.) I sent her mom and dad an email and CC'd her (I don't consider this breaking NC because she broke it by sending the gifts) basically saying thanks for the gifts, that was kind of you, hope life is treating you well. That was it. No questions about them, no information about me. I feel good. Not expecting a reply from her and frankly I don't want one. I'm doing fine without her and now that this is finally done (her mom has been telling me she was sending something since a week before Christmas so I had hoped to get them soon after and just say thanks and stick to NC). Anyway, there are rare occasions for breaking NC and this was one of them. Just don't break it in the hopes of getting back with them. That isn't mine. There's a part of me that just can't be a d*ck when someone is being nice to me. To quote Al Bundy: "I feel good!"
a4a Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Oh no NC MAN made contact..... belated gifts are his Kryptonite!! Just kidding NC MAN... carry on ......
Author CaliGuy Posted February 15, 2006 Author Posted February 15, 2006 Oh no NC MAN made contact..... belated gifts are his Kryptonite!! Just kidding NC MAN... carry on ...... NC MAN has learned that he can handle kryptonite. He is faster than a speeding snail, more powerful than a hyundai and able to leap tall women in usually three or four tries.
cal gal Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 NC MAN has learned that he can handle kryptonite. He is faster than a speeding snail, more powerful than a hyundai and able to leap tall women in usually three or four tries. leap tall women? for some reason I'm not sure the "leap" is what they would want??? maybe a different four letter word.... just kiddin... good job CG- classy response to gifts sent, glad you feel strong. am proud of you. you must be a good guy for her parents to think kindly of you.
Touche Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 I wouldn't consider that breaking NC at all. The letter was for the parents with her just being cc'd. Had you sent HER the letter with the parents being cc'd, I think that would have been a different story. Perfect. You retain your title!
skeptik224 Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Hey, Cali...you handled the situation great. You kept the thanks short and didn't leave any door open for further communication.
Author CaliGuy Posted February 15, 2006 Author Posted February 15, 2006 Thanks all. She didn't leave it open in her reply either. Again, I'm not looking to go back down that road again. Even if she was to try and come back now I wouldn't do it. We're just incompatible people. She's retarded and I am not
cal gal Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Thanks all. She's retarded and I am not good for you.. :laugh:
Touche Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Really what it is, is that you had a girl and now you're ready for a woman.
Author CaliGuy Posted February 15, 2006 Author Posted February 15, 2006 Really what it is' date=' is that you had a girl and now you're ready for a woman.[/quote'] Absolutely. One of the last talks we had she admitted as much. She said: "The difference between us is you're mature, I am immature." At least she admitted it.
cal gal Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Really what it is' date=' is that you had a girl and now you're ready for a woman.[/quote'] I totally agree with this statement and I think the next gal you decide to date CG will be so happy and appreciative of your growth within yourself. You will have so much generosity and kindness from your heart because it seems as though you like and appreciate yourself soooo much more than you did even two months ago. This is a huge advantage to take into a healthy relationship and will bring big rewards as your life moves forward. You are maturing and will be ready to find a great gal that will appreciate your good qualities and your generous and sensitive heart and nature. Yep, I know you don't usually like me very much - but I'm just calling it like I see it. You'll do fine honey...
wendel1 Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 To quote Al Bundy: "I feel good!" On a different note...wasnt Married with Children a great show.....!
Author CaliGuy Posted February 15, 2006 Author Posted February 15, 2006 On a different note...wasnt Married with Children a great show.....! "Choco cake, choco cake! Eat so much get a belly-ache!" Yeah, that show rocked.
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