fedup82 Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 What should be considered boundaries for your boyfriend to have a good friendship with another female to determine she really is just a friend? How would you try and find out the truth?
Nur Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 My boyfriend has a lot of friends (and most of them are girls). He talks with them, eats with them, sometimes goes to their houses to study. I don't mind. I trust him. Being an engineering major, most of my friends are guys. I do the same -- I hang out with them, eat with them, joke with them, study with them, and even go to the movies. He doesn't mind (expect sometimes about the movies... he gets jealous). But yeah. Unless he's putting off plans for you to see another girl instead, or starts talking nonstop about her in your presence in a way indicating he feels something other than friendship, it's fine. We each have our own lives, our own friends, but the love we have for each other doesn't diminish with that.
Author fedup82 Posted February 15, 2006 Author Posted February 15, 2006 Wow!!! that's really good advice NUR!!! I know what you're saying, but what about with the things that have happened. You should read my other post "Is he lying about his feelings for her" in the general relationship forum. It's true though that he doesn't hang out with her instead of me, he doesn't at all really. Not since we became official and the time I found him in his truck with her alone talking after going out with people from work and not answering my calls all night. Wouldn't that worry you though? He doesn't talk about her with me or mention anything about her either. If I ask, he tells. I know it all comes down to whether or not I trust him with what he's telling me. i haven't really seen any suspicious behavior with them. If anything it's her. But she has a boyfriend and I have mine.
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