demonspawn Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 hello all I was wondering if you were to reconile and get back with someone, what would be best? would it be best to start where u left off, or start where the relationship began when everything was good and focus on improving the good?
skeptik224 Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 If you are one of the fortunate ones to get a 2nd chance, my advice would be to start fresh. (assuming all of the issues that caused the first break up were resolved) Take it as a brand new relationship. Consider yourself lucky
CaliGuy Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 hello all I was wondering if you were to reconile and get back with someone, what would be best? would it be best to start where u left off, or start where the relationship began when everything was good and focus on improving the good? You can not start where you left off. That would most assuredly spark a second break up. First, before you reconcile, something needs to change. Either you, your Ex or the situation. So if you rush right back under the same circumstances as before you are doomed to fail. This is why more reconcilliations don't work. If you want to reconcile, figure out why the breakup occured and what you can do to improve. Your Ex needs to do the same. But don't rush right back in. Start over from scratch if you want any chance of success.
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