For You I Will Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Why is the sex always the best w/ married men??! I've noticed that many women write on here "its the best sex i have ever had" I think its incredibly funny. Why is this so true?
Guest Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Maybe because their wives have already trained them?? Just a theory
lindya Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Why is the sex always the best w/ married men??! I've noticed that many women write on here "its the best sex i have ever had" I think its incredibly funny. Why is this so true? Guilt can be an aphrodisiac. So can an inflated ego...ie that comes from having more than one woman on the go. I've heard it said that quite a few men also enjoy much more exciting sex with their wives once they embark on an affair. The shadowy presence of the other woman serving to spice things up in the marital bed, so to speak. People are strange creatures, especially when it comes to sexual matters.
erika2610 Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 I'll say.. my MM was the best i ever had. I don't know.. maybe it was the combination of him just trying hard to please me to keep me.. and maybe some sexual frustration at home. But I don't know for sure, obviously..
helena abadi Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 maybe forbidden fruit does taste sweeter....something that is subversive and disaproved of excites people. however personally, even the concept makes me want to throw up. a MM shares his bed with his wife. yuuuuuuuk. there are a whole lot of single people out there. get a life.
Brianschick Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 I agree with Erick2610, I see it with my MM. He really trys to please ME most times. His attentiveness makes it great and just the knowing that we are both doing something we shouldn't kind of spices things up ...
erika2610 Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 however personally, even the concept makes me want to throw up. a MM shares his bed with his wife. yuuuuuuuk. there are a whole lot of single people out there. get a life. Nice answer. That was not necessary..
scarletletter Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 In my situation, its not that he is married it is that he and I totally connect in a way that we didn't connect with spouses. Sex was old and boring and same old, same old at home so it is all new. I think it could be just as fabulous with a single person in that its all about the "connection."
lindya Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Nice answer. That was not necessary.. That would seem a fair response if this was one of those angsty "I feel so guilty but I love him so much" posts. However, this thread begain.... "Why is the sex always the best w/ married men??! I've noticed that many women write on here "its the best sex i have ever had" I think its incredibly funny. Why is this so true?" Hardly the tone of someone who's in dire need of support and sympathy, so a bit of flak from people who disapprove won't kill her. Better that people use a thread like this to vent their feelings about infidelity than that they choose a thread where someone is expressing a genuine, heartfelt problem.
Author For You I Will Posted February 15, 2006 Author Posted February 15, 2006 No offense taken!! But, you guys are great!! I def agree w/ the "forbidden fruit" example. Also, the fact that we aren't supposed to be having sex w/ this person, does spice it up... Makes it more fulfilling... We are weird creatures, huh?! Also, how was all your relationships w/ your father?? I had a horrible one, & Im not that close w/ him even now. I was never allowed to do anything, while growing up. Does anyone think that has an effect on your future relationships?? I always go for men that are significantly much older than me.. & men that treat me like poo poo. Its odd... but I learned never to treat my children that way. Thanks for listening
Brianschick Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 I would have to say that not having a dad around or having an emotionaly absent dad definitely plays a role on who a young girl will choose to date/marry. My dad was around until I was three and then ~poof~ he was gone!. When he was around we were really close and I loved him so much. Even when I was single I was always hooking up with men who had girlfriends or where married...I didn't even know these men had significant others most of the time.
Sami_D Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 For me, it's because we're both 'older', and experienced. Also, he's the first boyfriend I've had who has been on the same wavelength as me sexually (and ditto for him). We both want the same things, fit together like a glove. He was also the first boyfriend I had where I felt a total connection in terms of our interests, passions, sense of humour... everything is just bang on. I think it takes half a lifetime to find these things... and then, it's more or less odds on that ONE of you is going to be married by that time. And rarely to eachother. Incidentally, he doesn't sleep with his wife, and there's no sneaking around for us, and no danger. So none of that applies here.
RecordProducer Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 I had a ONS and a very short relationship with MM (the latter told me he was separated and I was 19). They both sucked in bed big time!
erika2610 Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 That would seem a fair response if this was one of those angsty "I feel so guilty but I love him so much" posts. However, this thread begain.... "Why is the sex always the best w/ married men??! I've noticed that many women write on here "its the best sex i have ever had" I think its incredibly funny. Why is this so true?" Hardly the tone of someone who's in dire need of support and sympathy, so a bit of flak from people who disapprove won't kill her. Better that people use a thread like this to vent their feelings about infidelity than that they choose a thread where someone is expressing a genuine, heartfelt problem. I do see your point. I think it was just the 'get a life' part that bugged me.. but I do agree with ya..
newbby Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 I had a ONS and a very short relationship with MM (the latter told me he was separated and I was 19). They both sucked in bed big time! i was just about to say the same thing. (almost)
RecordProducer Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 i was just about to say the same thing. (almost) But you wanted to say that they sucked your nipples?
newbby Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 But you wanted to say that they sucked your nipples? yeah, and it was the best nipple suck, i've ever had!
helena abadi Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Nice answer. That was not necessary.. why was it not necessary?
CeeJayXXX Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 My MM is 35 years older than me. He has seen a whole different world when it comes to what intimacy is.....not putting down his partner at all. They are use to the very basics in their marriage. I brought new life to him. It actually works a little in favour of his wife too, it seems.
RecordProducer Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 yeah, and it was the best nipple suck, i've ever had! The best nipple suck I ever had was from my sons! :bunny: My MM is 35 years older than me You mean like you are 15 and he is 50? It actually works a little in favour of his wife too, it seems I am sure she told you that herself and personally thanked you for taking good care of her husband!
Touche Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Sex with a married man? YES! It's the BEST! I love making love to my husband. Try it with your own husband sometime! Much better, I would imagine, than with someone else's.
mopar crazy Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 I love making love to my own H too and it is the best. I've had sex w/ two men in serious CR and the sex w/ them didn't even come as close to what it does w/ my own H. I was crazy about the first man but the other was just, I don't know, stupidity. The first man I was so crazy about ya think it would of made the sex great, but it really wasn't as great as my own H.
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 My MM is 35 years older than me. He has seen a whole different world when it comes to what intimacy is.....not putting down his partner at all. They are use to the very basics in their marriage. I brought new life to him. It actually works a little in favour of his wife too, it seems. And you are proud of this??? YUCK! Why would you want to have sex with an old geezer, again?? You obviously have very little love for YOURSELF. Trust me, a man can be good in bed whether he's only had one partner or a 1000 partners. It really depends on how adventurous he is and how much he loves you.
MySugaree Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 Affair sex can be extraordinary. It's sex in a champagne bubble. The hot lovers go to a luxury hotel, with a couple bottles of champagne, and fu#k their brains out. It's them, the affair partners, against the whole moral world order, Dr. Phil, their spouses and families. That's a turn-on. Affair sex can be summed up this way: When really truly great things happen to really bad people. At the end, that's all that will be left: The memories of phenomenal sex. Have fun.
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