chatterbug Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 I am new to this site, and I have a question that you may be able to answer for me, or at least give me some clues.... I met this guy 2 weeks ago, we chatted online for 3 nights, and on the phone, next we met for dinner, which went fantastic....we saw each other everyday since for 10 days in a row, in between working....we talked a least 6 hours a day if not more.....He wanted to meet my friends and my kids, which also went extremely well. Then all of a sudden it went quiet, he had asked me to call after work one day and didnt answer and later when he did he was cool like saying he was too tired and wanted to go to bed early.......and now he hasnt called since.....My question is do you think he got cold feet or have I been duped????....Any comments or any clues that may help me understand this would be great....thankx
Art_Critic Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 How long has it been since you have heard from him ? The light that burns the brightest also burns out the fastest.. Sometimes slower is better
Author chatterbug Posted February 15, 2006 Author Posted February 15, 2006 Well its only been 4 days but it was sooooo intense (no not sex yet).
Art_Critic Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 It sounds like he got cold feet... I don't think you have been duped.. Why not call him one more time ? if you are getting the cool feeling from him again then he fizzled out..
bluechocolate Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 .....we saw each other everyday since for 10 days in a row, in between working....we talked a least 6 hours a day if not more.....He wanted to meet my friends and my kids, which also went extremely well. Wow! Maybe he just needs a break?! Seriously though, this sounds like way too much, way too fast. My question is do you think he got cold feet or have I been duped????.... He may have got cold feet, but I wouldn't say you've been duped. Keep some perspective here - you've only known each other for 2 weeks. Now if you had had sex & then he went all quiet & never called.... different story. You're just going to have to wait & see if he calls. If he doesn't, c'est la vie.
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