cal gal Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 You are all making too much of a big thing about whether or not it has monetary value. That is not the point, Pad, he thought enough to do a personal gift on a special holiday. Take that and be appreciative. I have received a lot of very expensive jewelry over the years, and to be honest, I don't care. My husband wanted to give it to me and I made him feel important and kindhearted because he had the thoughtfulness to think of me..... but I have to tell you.... I would much rather receive a ring or any thing else that I can wear casually and every day , than a 3-5,000.00 piece that sits in my safe waiting to be passed down to the next generation. Do you get my drift? It's not the money, he was thoughtful and kind enough to buy you something personal that he thought you would appreciate. He is probably a guy with a good heart.
Author basscatcher Posted February 15, 2006 Author Posted February 15, 2006 You are all making too much of a big thing about whether or not it has monetary value. That is not the point, Pad, he thought enough to do a personal gift on a special holiday. Take that and be appreciative. I have received a lot of very expensive jewelry over the years, and to be honest, I don't care. My husband wanted to give it to me and I made him feel important and kindhearted because he had the thoughtfulness to think of me..... but I have to tell you.... I would much rather receive a ring or any thing else that I can wear casually and every day , than a 3-5,000.00 piece that sits in my safe waiting to be passed down to the next generation. Do you get my drift? It's not the money, he was thoughtful and kind enough to buy you something personal that he thought you would appreciate. He is probably a guy with a good heart. I have NOT recieved a gift like this in my life ever before... I totally understand. I prefer something I can wear everyday also.. That is why I am weary about this ring.. I don't know if it is somethng I should be wearing everyday? I want too but if it is of value I don't want to risk loosing a stone or bending it, etc etc... I don't want to abuse something of $$ value.. The meaning behind the ring is the most important but I don't want to treat this like any old peice of costume jewelry because I know its not. I have been researching online about sapphires and how to care for them.
alphamale Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 I totally understand. I prefer something I can wear everyday also.. That is why I am weary about this ring.. I don't know if it is somethng I should be wearing everyday? You should be wearing it everyday or most of the time. When a man gives you jewelry he expects it to be worn.
Author basscatcher Posted February 15, 2006 Author Posted February 15, 2006 You should be wearing it everyday or most of the time. When a man gives you jewelry he expects it to be worn. Thank you Alpha... I take back calling you a BooB... Unless you are a boobsvcker; then its a true statement. This is good knowledge..
cal gal Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 Thank you Alpha... I take back calling you a BooB... Unless you are a boobsvcker; then its a true statement. This is good knowledge.. Sorry Pada - but a boob svcker might do me some good right now ... :lmao:
Author basscatcher Posted February 15, 2006 Author Posted February 15, 2006 Sorry Pada - but a boob svcker might do me some good right now ... :lmao: alphie:love: alphie alphie:love: come out come out where ever you are.. We have cal gal here who needs some suckin service done...
witabix Posted February 16, 2006 Posted February 16, 2006 You should be wearing it everyday or most of the time. When a man gives you jewelry he expects it to be worn. That is true Alpha, I am getting concerned about the number of times I agree with you;) Anyway, what Alpha says is definately right. Regardless of the monetary value, it is a big buzz for a guy to see his girl wearing gifts like this. It is a little antiquarian, I realise that. But I am filled with, don't really know how to describe that feeling, when my gf is wearing something I bought her. I can describe the opposite feeling, it feels like a real let down, very disappointing, as though you bought her something she is ashamed to wear in public. Can be quite distressing in fact. As though you made a big mistake, she said she liked it, but never wears it. She was just 'being nice'. That stings. Shaved monkeys, what can I say?
Author basscatcher Posted February 16, 2006 Author Posted February 16, 2006 I have worn it eveyday since he gave it to me. I am proud and very happy and comfortable wearing it because it came from him. I wear it on my left ring finger because that is the finger it fits on. I have had more people think it is a engagement ring. :lmao: My chiropractor asked if we set a date?!! :lmao: OMG the attention this ring has stirred is fun... I usually don't get this kind of attention so I'm lapping it all up.. Everyone said they wouldn't be surprised if we were engaged at 4 months. WTF...????? I would't marry unless we have been dating for at least a year and have been able to get through little obsticles and have good communication skills. I don't want to repeat my last marriage.... NO we are NOT engaged.... It was a gift for Valentines Day!!
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