PlentyLV007 Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 I've had my guy friend for about 8 years now....we've dated in the past but it didn't work out. Things are great for us and it works out better for us just being good friends. He's dating someone and I'm really happy for him. It's been about a month now that they are dating. We hang out and what not... when we were hanging out last night infront of his house he tells me, you have to go! I said what ? He said my girlfriend is on her way and I need you to go or else she will get really jelouse and be mad at me for Valentines. R U kidding me!!! Can someone please tell me if I'm silly for being bothered by him telling me to leave!? I mean I'm just a friend, what's the big deal? When he invited me over to hang out in the first place! Guys...have you ever been through something like that? Women??? If you were to go visit your boyfriend and saw him hanging out w/ a female friend....would you get upset? and why?
witabix Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 He invited you over, then invited you to leave, because his new gf was on her way. Sounds like he has not put her in the picture that he hangs with exes. There are quite a few similar threads, from the new gf/bf aspect on this LV. A lot of people are bothered by their new flame hanging with old flames.
Author PlentyLV007 Posted February 14, 2006 Author Posted February 14, 2006 Why does it have to be acknowledged that I'm an ex when I'm just a friend now! Why would she have to know that I'm an ex instead of a friend!? I mean Me and him are the only one's that know. She doesn't and I honestly don't feel she needs to know. We aren't doing anything....we just are "friends". I'm not attracted to him...I don't see him in a luvy duvy way...I don't understand
witabix Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 Well my experience has taught me to be mindful of the "we are only friends" thing, thats just me though. An ex of mine had an ex who she had split up with "ten years ago", she still couldn't stand for us to ever meet. Here is one example. Her sister had a big party planned. I was invited, really formal ball type of thing. I hired a tux, drove four hundred miles, with still two hundred and fifty miles to go. Only to get a phone call that my gf wasn't going, too busy at work, so I couldn't go! Load of BS! Her ex was a musician, like me. I discovered later that another party I wasn't invited to was because he was going to be there. Her niece, upon meeting me, said " I prefer ******", she was only nine! I asked how on earth a nine year old could know this guy as her bf? It only got murkier and murkier. Exes are exes, and letting them get in the way, or interfere with a current relationship only leads to trouble. That is only my opinion, and does not reflect on your particular situation.
cal gal Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 I hate jealousy and have no use for it - ever! Can you ever remember anything good that became of anyone being jealous? It is sooooo unproductive!
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