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I met this girl 2 weeks ago...shes everything I've been looking for in a girl...shes athletic and extremely easy to get along with. We went out on our first date last week and I took her out to dinner tonight. I wanted to ask her to be my valentine but I thought it was too early to ask that sort of thing. We started "hooking up" last week after the first date..since then we've chilled at my house and watched a couple movies and shes slept over here 3 or 4 times. We haven't had sex yet though. I asked her if she was looking for a relationship out of what we have and she said yea. And I told her I liked her and I asked her if she had any feelings towards me and she said she did. I have a few questions though. I don't want to rush things because i really do like her and I don't want to lose her so my first question is...I really want her to be my g/f but I don't want to ask her now because I think its too soon...so when should I ask her? I haven't had a girlfriend since senior year of high school so its been a while and I don't want to rush into this one. If you could give me a little advice that would be great..

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Why did you ask her if she had any feelings for you? That seems a bit rushed, IMO... but now that it's out of the way, you might as well go ahead and ask her to be your lady... good luck...

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Theres a reasoning behind me asking her this early whether or not she had feelings for me. She hooked up with 2 guys last year and didn't have feelings for them and she said she didn't want to make that mistake again. So thats why I asked her. I mean i would love for her to be my girlfriend, I just don't want to rush into this

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