WeaknPowerless Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 *Warning* Probably not suitable for those in their first month or so of recovery. My mind plays tricks on me when I don’t write or talk. The blood pressure rises and I slowly unravel when certain thoughts and truths start to hit me. This is for those like me that would rather get a dose of reality then start letting their over active imagination take over. Read these; paraphrase them to fit your situation. Just know that they are true to a degree and there’s nothing to do but move on. • If she is seeing someone, your “girl” is holding his arm, excitedly showing off her new boy toy, and yes, she is sleeping with him. She’s giving him everything she promised she’d give to only you. Bonus: Her friends that supposedly thought you were great together are telling her how great her new man is. • If he is seeing someone, your “guy” is saying the same sweet nothings he told you. He is nibbling her ear and taking her out to “your” favorite spots. He too is sleeping with her, and is actually putting in some effort. Bonus: All those missed backrubs, foot massages, showers together…she gets those – for now • Their family members, the ones that loved you and thought you were the greatest person in the world for their son/daughter, etc…they are happy that your ex has found someone new. They are happy that they are happy. You may cross their mind if you had a significant role in their household, but you’re now the past. They wished you well, but you’re gone now, probably forever. • No, your ex isn’t going to realize how gigantic of a mistake they made and come running back. In fact, they are too busy living their life to probably even think of you for much more then a fleeting second or two. You’re the one that hurts, not them, don’t imagine them pining away over you. • Promises have been breaking since whoever invented the damn concept. “You’re the greatest thing to ever happen to me. I’ll always love you”, “I promise (insert your example here)”. All of these; broken. They cannot be repaired. Don’t hold onto them. Just know you held your end of the bargain, they didn’t. • Again, if they are with someone else, they are doing every nasty thought you can think of. Every trick you taught them. Every nook and cranny, some filthy rebound/replacement is right in the middle of. Doesn’t the thought just piss you off? Better to just except it though, because to have it creep up from the middle of no where SUCKS. Bonus: You aren’t getting any right now aren’t you? That beautiful naked body that used to be beside you every night is now running around naked in someone else’s apartment. The bright side, you’re gonna knock someone’s socks clear across their bedroom when you get the chance. That’s gonna be a lot more fun then regretful, forgettable sex with your ex (if the chance should come up). • He/she has thrown away your sweet, romantic mementoes. Sure, the stuffed bear, the dozen dried roses, the homemade cards and diamond earrings all walked out the door in tact. They probably hit the trash can the second they unlocked the new door to their new place. Oh how they loved the romantic gestures then. This isn’t self-torture. At least it isn’t for me. It’s facts. And hiding behind fantasies and self-indulging thoughts only makes the pain that much more when the old memories creep in. And they DO creep in at some point. Wash yourself free of that that pains you by acknowledging it and accepting it.
witabix Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 Cold................................... but real. Truth from the freezer. It stays fresh that way.
AltplanB Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 all of this is true, but i dont think you needed to tell everyone. At least you warned them.
hindsight Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 thats EXACTLY HOW I FEEL shes an insecure liar and everything she ever said was just part of her script.i was just the next guy at the time,now she found a pushover she can control and got her engagement ring .i hope im more aware the next time..
hindsight Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 actually she ruined any chance of me having any faith in what someone says .i saw how easy she could say what was(supposed) to be said at the time,im still not interested in anyone and shes already gone to the places we went /now with him and is engaged,how can someone go from one s/o to another in a flash like that ...ill never get it
hindsight Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 i hope she has diarhea on her wedding night
hurtbeyondwords Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 i hope she has diarhea on her wedding night that was quite possibly the funniest thing Ive heard all night:laugh:
witabix Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 i hope she has diarhea on her wedding night Naw, he'll be too cheap to buy the expensive stuff!
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