whichwayisup Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 One day your brother will be a lonely old man. With s***loads of money... Each to their own, obviously. Right now if doing that makes him feel good and happy but I believe one day he'll look back and grow a conscious and maybe even feel bad.
Author Raven1845 Posted February 14, 2006 Author Posted February 14, 2006 my little brother (37 y/o) is a true player. he is very good looking and a doctor also. he uses women and spits them out and they come running back for more abuse. it is quite funny actually. he has used female attorneys, female MBAs, etc. blah blah. sometimes the smartest women are the stupidest. And you find this amusing, alphamale?
alphamale Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 One day your brother will be a lonely old man. With s***loads of money... maybe WWIU, but he's haveing a damn lot of fun right now. He has too charasmatic a personality to be lonely. And you find this amusing, alphamale? somewhat....he does not do anything that attractive females don't do to men everday.
cygny Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 my little brother (37 y/o) is a true player. he is very good looking and a doctor also. he uses women and spits them out and they come running back for more abuse. it is quite funny actually. he has used female attorneys, female MBAs, etc. blah blah. sometimes the smartest women are the stupidest. you think they are stupid. no. they are CONFUSED. because he told them one thing, made them feel good, and then treated them like s***. it doesn't make them look as stupid as it makes him look like a psychopath. personally, i'd rather be stupid.
SmoochieFace Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 you think they are stupid. no. they are CONFUSED. because he told them one thing, made them feel good, and then treated them like s***. it doesn't make them look as stupid as it makes him look like a psychopath. personally, i'd rather be stupid. Well, cygny, people like that (even playuh women) do have sociopathic personalities... aka... they don't have any real conscience and no empathy for others. They just go through life thinking only of themselves.
Lil Honey Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 The thing is, if people took more time to get to know the other person before getting emotionally attached, the likelihood of getting hurt would be reduced. OR just alot of sexual passion. Allowing that to take over CAN cloud judgement... Many out-dated words for this come to mind. The problem is that young men learn from older men that it's okay. Older men think it's okay, because they aren't called out on it. They aren't dumped when they should be. Go to a high school parking lot or some other place where teens hang out. You'll see what girls think is "normal" behavior from their boyfriends. You'll also see what girls do to keep these boyfriends in order to salvage some semblance of self-esteem.
SmoochieFace Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 You'll also see what girls do to keep these boyfriends in order to salvage some semblance of self-esteem. Yep, they give themselves away both emotionally and sexually. Pathetic.
whichwayisup Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 maybe WWIU, but he's haveing a damn lot of fun right now. He has too charasmatic a personality to be lonely. Maybe for now he does...But as he gets older, gets close to retirement or even godforbid something happens to him healthwise, he will be lonely and possibly alone. Do you think he'll ever settle down with someone? (I just be curious, that's all. )
blind_otter Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 Please don't post any replies stating that a man will not play a woman worth keeping. I've seen it done time and time again. Usually, if the man is a "player" he's not looking to "keep" ANY woman, regardless of how great she is. I am VERY curious as to why a man would "play" a woman if she is beautiful, sexy, good in bed, funny, intelligent, confident, strong, independent, etc. Why "play" a great woman? This is JMO, and I didn't read the whole thread. But. I would venture to guess that players are like the classic charmer/abuser personality that I know so much about. They seek out specific personality types or women with certain traits that would make them vulnerable to their seduction. It is what every predator in the animal kingdom does. Not that it makes the object of seduction weak. Perhaps romantic. Or one who presents a tough exterior who has tender spots that can be like kryptonite if the right man can find those tender spots.
cygny Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 Well, cygny, people like that (even playuh women) do have sociopathic personalities... aka... they don't have any real conscience and no empathy for others. They just go through life thinking only of themselves. couldn't say it better myself SF
cygny Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 Maybe for now he does...But as he gets older, gets close to retirement or even godforbid something happens to him healthwise, he will be lonely and possibly alone. Do you think he'll ever settle down with someone? (I just be curious, that's all. ) It's also pretty classicly the case that a player gets lots of women EXCEPT for the one he really wants. She checks out his history first and says no way. And he's left out in the cold. I've heard this from players themselves. they know they shot themselves in the foot. poor baby. maybe he can find another 100 women he doesn't really want to make up for her.
jerbear Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 It's also pretty classicly the case that a player gets lots of women EXCEPT for the one he really wants. She checks out his history first and says no way. And he's left out in the cold. I've heard this from players themselves. they know they shot themselves in the foot. poor baby. maybe he can find another 100 women he doesn't really want to make up for her. Very true, a friend of mine was "passed" over because she classified him as a gigolo!
Pyro Posted February 15, 2006 Posted February 15, 2006 It's also pretty classicly the case that a player gets lots of women EXCEPT for the one he really wants. This is true. I personally know a couple of individuals who you could call "players". Sure they have been with a substantial amount of women, but they were not exactly the cream of the crop. Players seem so desperate to boost their ego in the eyes of others that they will take whatever they can get. I could never stoop to the level of being a player.
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