hurtbeyondwords Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 ok, not sure if anyone has read my previous threads, just know that it's similar to a lot of others. My gf decided to break up with me 1.5 months ago. I was devestated but also "woke up". I realized that I really dont want to be with someone that does not feel the same for me as I do for them. she broke my heart and Im ready to move on no matter how important she was to me. Then...I met an amazing girl saturday and Im still smiling. Its been a long time since someone has made me feel this good about myself. I can't get her out of my head! the twist.. she's going through the exact same thing as me. almost teh same amount of time etc. Anyways.. I would love to get to know her but Im afraid of a double rebound. Im willing to be patient and take things slow. How should I aproach this? any ideas?
Marielle Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 I would give it a try....sounds good. However do not give too much of yourself yet, keep it casual. At the same time show her the best of you and do not talk anymore about your past relationship. Show her and yourself that you both deserve better. All the best
SuperMonk Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 Keep it light, ignore the ex, and you will reach the honeypot.
roxy_1980 Posted February 14, 2006 Posted February 14, 2006 In my opinion, rebounds happen usually cause people are looking for replace the intensity of their previous relationship (usually) with a stranger. The serious relationship had its intensity because of the time that was put in and cannot be manufactured quickly with someone new. Rebounding can be averted by taking things slowly and being aware of who you are actually dating (not the mirage of the person you think you want imposed on that person). Don't move too fast. And learn who is really is. Then proceed with caution. Not all new relationships after a serious ex are rebounds. Good Luck, Roxy
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