WeaknPowerless Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 We are all smart people. I know, that except for the initial trauma where all my actions were taken over by my emotions, that all the problems I’ve had with this breakup, I really do know the reality of the situation. When we get upset, we know what the response will be when asking for help. When it comes to NC, we all know we “should” stick with it. Even on the darkest days, when you’re wearing the lovey dovey, rose tinted glasses, you know, fundamentally things are wrong because they left. I personally know that my self-esteem should be high enough not to even think of reconciling, even though my heart wants it. Why can’t the heart and brain work together on this? I know what I have to do. I know there is light at the end of the tunnel. I know life will go on and I’ll move on to bigger and better things. Does anyone else feel this way?
hurtbeyondwords Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 I did untill I met someone who helped me see that life truley is better than things may seem. Sure it gets tough but someone will see you as the good person you are. Look forward to that day, it may help.
fooled Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 WNP - I have been having those same feelings today - coupled with the jealousy that she will be with someone else tomorrow night. Not that I don't think she's with someone else EVERY night - but tomorrow especially. I have to keep thinking of what Lonestar said to me: that I don't miss her, I miss the feeling of being with her. I am very much wearing the rose colored glasses today.
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