Butterflying Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 Why haven't I ever gotten a second chance. I've only had 3 serious relationships in my lifetime. The first two, I dumped because of infedelity. The third, he dumped me. He never gave me a reason. He just moved away without telling me until afterwards. He only called me to see how I was doing but he didn't give me any of his contact information. He never told me it was over. He simply said, "I'll talk to you later." And I never heard from him again. How do second chances happen?
Curmudgeon Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 How do second chances happen? When there's enough caring and substance on both sides for them to really want to make things work. It has to be a two-way street. If either one isn't totally committed, all the chances in the world won't save the relationship.
Author Butterflying Posted February 13, 2006 Author Posted February 13, 2006 So is it safe to assume, if a guy who cheated on me never came back for a second chance, it's because he was never truly committed to me.
catgirl1927 Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 So is it safe to assume, if a guy who cheated on me never came back for a second chance, it's because he was never truly committed to me. If he cheated on you, he was never truly committed to you. Why waste your time with people who have already hurt you? Find new people and start fresh.
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