Cassiodorus Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 Ok, my girlfriend breaks up with me on Friday of last week. She gives me the whole "let's be friends" speech. I don't talk to her until Wednesday. She calls me and asks me how mad I am. I tell her that I was not angry. Highly appointed, but not angry. She tells me that I should be angry. I tell her anger never solved anything. She then asks me what I want do to. She tells me that she likes me a lot, but that a relationship is a lot of pressure. I ask why she feels that way, and she tells me that she feels like she owes me chunks of her time, and that she should feel that way because that is part of a relationship. She then says she doesn't have that time, or at least she doesn't not feel good about not spending the time with me she knows she should and that if she can't do things right, she shouldn't do them. I tell her that we should sit down at some point and talk things out. She calls me Thursday morning as I am getting ready for class and asks me if I want to meet up with her and hang out some that afternoon. I agree and meet up with her after her class. We both had work to do, but we also talked quite a bit in the two hours we spend together. She kept asking me about being angry and kept telling me how much she loves me. She asks me to take her back, and, loving her like I do, I agree to it. She tells me that she is going out of town to see a play on Saturday, so I knew I wouldn't be seeing her this weekend. So, I talk with her today. When talking with her, I tell her that I miss her kisses (since we hadn't seen each other for about a week before we broke up, so we haven't kissed each other in about 3 weeks). She acts annoyed when I said that. I ask why, she asks me to please not be cheesy, because she "really can't handle it" right now. I apologize. I almost feel like that even though she asked for me back, that she does not really want me. What do you guys/gals think?
phyrespryte Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 She sounds like a nut job. Actually....I think she's not ready to deal with a relationship, but she can't handle being alone. That's why she came back to you. Or maybe the whole annoyed thing was because she missed you and didn't want to be reminded about that, but I highly doubt that.
TheTallOne Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 She sounds like a nut job. Bingo. She is unstable, run.
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