charlottemarie Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 :rolleyes:I saw my fiance's ex-girlfriend......also my ex-neighbor in a restaraunt last week. It totally took me by suprise. I went in to pick up a meal to go and these ladies were staring me down....I'm like.....what in the world? Then I realize his ex is sitting with the staring women and I guess I was the topic of conversation. It took me by suprise to see this person who I used to be aquaintances with and my natural reaction was to smile and say hello. Bad move on my part. Big time glares from all three overweight women. Big time. I stood my ground and waited in vain for a smile in return but after a bit realized that would happen when hell froze over so I gathered my take-out and went out the door I had come into. Though about showing her the engangement ring out of spite but didn't. Just wondering.......how long does this nonsense last? I didn't steal him. He was long gone from the relationship or else it never would have begun. Why is it that to this woman I am at fault and her boyfriend of 13 years.....I mean.....come on......is not to blame? Just curious. I know I sound flippant but I'm a bit tired of being singled out as the bad guy and no one else.......including her.......taking responsibility for a relationshop that was not working.
Guest Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 "Big time glares from all three overweight women". It's ok to be upset because they were giving you a hard time, but this comment was shallow...and yes, I'm a "big overweight" woman myself. It's judgemental and makes you look immature. Who knows, they might be looking at you thinking "look at the crackhead (ya know, cause you are skinny like one) can you believe he liked that at one time"? Yeah, you get my point. If this woman was a friend of yours at one time, and you got with her ex-man, she is always going to dislike you. You did the right thing by being polite. What more can you do? He is YOUR fiance now. Game over, keep smiling.
Author charlottemarie Posted February 13, 2006 Author Posted February 13, 2006 I'll give you that...I can be tacky and negative at times as that comment shows. Defensive could be more accurate. This woman has rolled down her window and called me a B**** as I walked in my neighborhood with my daughter's dog. She has also spread rumors about me, invaded my privacy, stolen personal property of mine and scratched my new car. Not very neighborlike, huh? So.....yeah......I can get a bit ugly at times. Not pretty but true. I'll work on my attitude and try to keep in mind that what she says and does shows who she is.....same for me. Thanks.
mopar crazy Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 I'll give you that...I can be tacky and negative at times as that comment shows. Defensive could be more accurate. This woman has rolled down her window and called me a B**** as I walked in my neighborhood with my daughter's dog. She has also spread rumors about me, invaded my privacy, stolen personal property of mine and scratched my new car. Not very neighborlike, huh? So.....yeah......I can get a bit ugly at times. Not pretty but true. I'll work on my attitude and try to keep in mind that what she says and does shows who she is.....same for me. Thanks. What a bunch of immature women they are. This is a bunch of HS s***! Sorry you are going through this. I have also went through the very samething. Ex GF's yelling names at me as they drive past my house, or scratching my car, it sucks! I never took their BF's away from them either. Their relationships were over b4 I even started dating the guy. It's just immature on their part. I was even friends w/ one gal and her BF b4 they started dating. When they started dating him she hated me. After they broke up she hated me even more. It's all jealousy. What you did was right. Just ignore their name calling no matter how hard it is. Did you report the scratch on the car? I did on mine but of course it never came back to the person I know that did it. My dad owned his own auto body business so he just repainted it for me w/in a week but it still pi$$ed me off she did it. GL! I hope they leave you alone soon.
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