Author My_Other_I Posted February 13, 2006 Author Posted February 13, 2006 LMAO!!!!! Do tell what happened!!!! NOTHING! Not even a conversation! But he did ask for a second one. I might have to move to 'second chances' if I agree on it. A complete dismatch.
clandestinidad Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 No f***ing way!!! There was no talking? I'm confused...was this date with a real human being????
Author My_Other_I Posted February 13, 2006 Author Posted February 13, 2006 No f***ing way!!! There was no talking? I'm confused...was this date with a real human being???? me: Q (blah blah) him: really? me: me: *insert conversation starter here * him: really? me: me: Q him: really? no way! me: me: yeah, really me: silent him: silent
Art_Critic Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 Sounds like he was unprepared.. or a dunce
Guest Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 Well, I had a perfectly lovely dinner with a friend, I just wish he was at least ten years younger than he is. That will not stop me, however from enjoying wonderful company and stimulating comversation with him in the future. He inspires me... damn it - just wish he were younger.... Maybe I'll just go for the older man thingy. He's too nice not to.
noclobber Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 How did you decide to go out on a date with this guy? :lmao:
JohnM Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 Maybe to get them going ask them questions about themselves. They can't give a quick answer on that...
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 Maybe he was just really nervous. Guys don't ask a girl out again if there's not some interest there. And some of the nicest guys are really nervous around women they are attracted too. Take another go at it again and see if he'll open up a bit. If not, then just be honest and say that you don't really feel things between you could move beyond friendship, because you're looking for different things.
whichwayisup Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 Go out with him again. And be very forward, cuz you have nothing to lose. Ask him if he's nervous. Ask him all sorts of things and just be joyful. I don't know! Just seems if two people don't mesh, atleast you know, and it seems in this case it was neither! lol.
clandestinidad Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 Oh dear....what an awful time!!! How long did this "date" last?!?!? I agree, ask him about himself next time: So, do you have any brothers/sisters? Do you get along? Or if not, was it lonely for you? But it really is annoying to be out with someone that you keep inquiring about and they dont ask any questions of you....if he does that drop him I'm wondering the same thing as NoClobber: how did you decide to go on a date with him?!?
7on Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 haha, almost sounds like my first date not too long ago - though I'm thinking I was just a tad better on the conversation than this guy. Yeah, nervousness is usually the key factor here. At least he didn't start conversing about the lame coffee house art that was hanging up or mention that nacho dancing is worse than salsa dancing (I'm THAT awful). sigh, at least give him another shot if you like him. The girl I dated probably won't, and I'm a great guy :/ sigh
justagirliegirl Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 He might have been very nervous or very shy. I think if I hadn't made some moves on my guy, we wouldn't be together. Like our first voice chat. We were both very nervous. Neither one of us had voice chatted. It lasted all of 30 seconds! lol But ya know, I still remember that to this day. He was the braver one who wanted to try it. We both warned each other before we had met that we may be silent. He was so afraid I wouldn't like him or think he was too quiet. When we first met, I was exhausted from jet lag anyway to begin with. I don't think we said hardly anything to each other for several days! hahaha I kept looking at him and saying OMG I can't believe I'm really here with you. Fast forward a year. When we are together, we blah blah quite a bit. The moment we go outside or around others we are silent.
Author My_Other_I Posted February 13, 2006 Author Posted February 13, 2006 Guys, I did ask him about him self. It was the same no matter what I said. It was like he wasn't even there! I am a very outgoing person, I just don't think that this is a match made in heaven I'm gonna give it another shot. I think he was nervous, he told me he wanted to ask me out about a year ago! I had no clue! It lasted about an hour, then I said I was tired (which was true - tired of trying, besides being really tired), and we went our separate ways.
justagirliegirl Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 That is probably what it is just a personality difference. If you liked him, I would give him another chance. If he is really shy, it may take a little bit for him to warm up.
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