Heart_Broken Posted February 12, 2006 Posted February 12, 2006 i hope this is the right spot for this topic. IM NEW HELP ME OUT. HERE GOES MY STORY i had a feeling that my gf was cheating on me because she would always mention this other dude name. the first time i really didnt pay it any attention until she just kept saying it. ANTWAN THIS,YOU LOOK LIKE ANTWAN.. so finally i asked my friend to check on her at school to see if she was cheating. he asked around but everyone was like no. so i felt a little better. i gues a week went by then i got a call and he says she did cheat on me. the dude she cheated with had a friend that was my friend and her name was brought up.. asked her about it and she said no.. so i ran with her answer..but in the back of my mind i still thought she did. so today as i was talking to her we got on the subject of cheating. we talked about it for awhile and i jus asked one more time did you cheat on me and she says YES, BUT NOTHIN HAPPEND AND I WONT DO IT AGIAN.. :mad: so i was like :confused: i mean she came out of the blue with the answer and i jus kept trying to see if she was playing but i could tell she was serious so i said i gotta call you later. then she calls back and leave a message and says i call her. i didnt call so about a minute later she calls back and i pick up and she says "I HOPE YOUR NOT MAD":eek: and im thinking to myself SHE GOTTA BE CRAZY.....IM PISSED OFF. so i say i cant talk right now then jus hang up.. I WOULDNT BE SO HURT IF I DIDNT LOVE HER BUT SHE IS THE ONLY GIRL THAT I HAVE LOVED WITH ALL MY HEART.. SHE WAS THE #1 GIRLFRIEND. NOW I DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD BREAK UP OR FORGIVE..tried to cry but it just wont come out..:(
jesusfist Posted February 12, 2006 Posted February 12, 2006 bail dood seriously, it'll be hard but you'll get over her
fooled Posted February 12, 2006 Posted February 12, 2006 Cheaters don't stop cheating. And they don't stop lying about it. This is serious experience talking.
mur4th Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 leave her alone i'mgoin through the same thing and even if she's sorry, i wouldnt trust her. she doesnt deserve you, if she loved u she wouldnt had cheated
coasting Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 A leapord never changes its spots! Trust me I do know!
coasting Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 I also believe in the saying once a cheater always a cheater!
TeaCooler Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 i've cheated in the past. i don't cheat now, and haven't in more 9 years. i have been in other relationships since then, am now engaged. saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" may make you feel better, but it doesn't make it true. however, your girlfriend is an idiot. it's the age. she may grow up eventually, but i wouldn't wait around for it. by the way, if she cheated, how exactly did "nothing happen"?
Citizen Erased Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 i've cheated in the past. i don't cheat now, and haven't in more 9 years. i have been in other relationships since then, am now engaged. saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" may make you feel better, but it doesn't make it true. however, your girlfriend is an idiot. it's the age. she may grow up eventually, but i wouldn't wait around for it. by the way, if she cheated, how exactly did "nothing happen"? Umm.. she cant even get her story straight. Relationships shouldnt be this hard and unless she is an angel, im afraid she will do it again and you shouldnt stick around waiting for it to all stop because it wont.
Art_Critic Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" may make you feel better, but it doesn't make it true. Your future isn't written yet.. write back in 10 years and give us an update on if you cheated again I believe in the once a cheater always a cheater.. From experience..
TeaCooler Posted February 23, 2006 Posted February 23, 2006 Your future isn't written yet.. write back in 10 years and give us an update on if you cheated again I believe in the once a cheater always a cheater.. From experience.. okay...just like in my experience, i don't believe it. i've been there--i know i won't go there again. i was a teenager. i've grown up and learned. why do you think that's so impossible? that's very sad. but thanks for the lack of encouragement. your future isn't written yet either. people who cheat or have cheated were, at one time, people who didn't cheat. apparently it takes 19 years to prove it after you screw up.
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