sarahmilton Posted February 12, 2006 Posted February 12, 2006 I'm in a situation I've never really been in before and I don't know what to think or how to react. I think (about 98%) that my long-term boyfriend is gay or at least bisexual. I have evidence to support this: My boyfriend has been teasing me and joking that he posted a few questions on the Answerology website and trying to make me geuss what they were about. I looked him up on Answerology yesterday while he was out, and found one of the questions and it is shocking for me to read. In this question, he's saying that he wrote an email to a friend of his telling the friend that he is attracted to him, but admitted that he thinks that they could probably never have a relationship. He also wrote that this friend responded that he appreciates his honesty about bisexuality and then admits that he is open to bisexuality as well. The other guy has a long-time girlfriend as well and I don't "think" he would ever cheat on her. My boyfriend is good friends with this guy and they play sports together. This question he posted on the website includes my boyfriend explaining that he wants to take it to the next level with his friend. I'm even thinking it may be possible that my boyfriend posted all this as a joke to see if I'd sneak into his email and look him up just to see how I'd react since he was teasing me about it (he's loves to create drama and to "test" me to see if I'll read his emails, etc). I really couldn't care less if my boyfriend is bisexual as long as still wants to be with me and be faithful. It could even make things a little more interesting! If he is gay, I really want him to be honest with me about it so that we can both move on. I would still be his friend and be supportive of him if this were the case. Is it possible for a guy to be truly bisexual and not just hiding the fact that he really is gay? I don't know what to do, as he and I live together and if I were to move out, then I need to save up enough money to pay first and last months rent This is so new to me! It's fine if he's gay, as I've always been very for gay rights. He's the one who voted Conservative and thinks that gay marriage is wrong! I just don't want to be cheated on! I've already bought him a thoughful and special gift for Valentine's Day and our sex life is better than ever! If he is in love with a guy though, even if this guy isn't interested, he needs to be honest with me so that I can move on! Any ideas on how I can get him to talk about this without making him angry and defensive or have him deny it?
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