has there ever been an update from aussie mandy re: her dentist "friend"?

[cal gal]

Just curious as to whether or not anyone has heard from Mandy about her dentist? Last I checked - she had not posted for quite some time. I thought maybe someone heard an update by some other means - PM or e-mail. If so, what has Mandy been up to in this New Year?

[whichwayisup]

Nope, no update. I think she was going to do what she was going to do from day one and none of us really changed her mind.

[cal gal]

Wow,

Hard to believe she didn't contact someone here privately and let them know.

She just left us hanging???? Like no ending to a book!!!!

[whichwayisup]

She probably didn't have access to PM.

 

And yes, it's like a soap that goes off the air, without an ending...

[erika2610]

I'm sure she'll be back here when the whole thing ends.. wanting advice on how to get over it.

[cal gal]

Eeeeeew that's a scary thought.

 

I guess in a way I am a bit surprised that he would even continue this long, as he seemed the type to "toss aside" as soon as he conquered.... just my take.

[erika2610]

Eeeeeew that's a scary thought.

 

I guess in a way I am a bit surprised that he would even continue this long, as he seemed the type to "toss aside" as soon as he conquered.... just my take.

 

Affairs can go on for years. Or maybe it's over, and she just didn't want to seem embarassed coming back here and telling everybody they were right..

[scarletletter]

I tried to discourage Mandy as much as I could in a friendly, non-judgemental way. Not only because it was a bad idea and I didn't feel she was emotionally ready to handle it, but because the dentist guy seemed like a real creep. All I know about him is what she told here on the forum but he seemed very shady and had a serious ego problem. I hope that she didn't persue him because I know that she will only end up heartbroken and hurt. She said once that she had some sort of illness and was not well physically. I hope she is okay now. She did not need that man in her life....she was headed for disaster.

[Touche]

You said you tried to discourage her because she was not emotionally ready and he seemed like a real creep? Uh, hello? What about trying to discourage her because it's just plain wrong and the man is married?

[erika2610]

You said you tried to discourage her because she was not emotionally ready and he seemed like a real creep? Uh' date=' hello? What about trying to discourage her because it's just plain wrong and the man is married?[/quote']

 

Please let's not turn this into a debate about how it's wrong, yadda yadda. The fact is, that if somebody really wants to do something, you're not going to be able to discourage them really. She was just hell bent on being with this guy. There was nothing anybody could've said that was going to stop her. When I was with my MM, it didn't matter what anybody said.. I had to be ready to leave.

[Touche]

I know, Erika. You're right. There's nothing anyone could have said to stop her. I just had to comment on scarlett's post. The reasons she mentioned for her to stop it in her tracks were secondary reasons. But I see your point.

[scarletletter]

Yes, Touche', I did leave out the obvious reason. As I said, I cannot be judgemental because I am doing the same thing. People that live in glass houses do not throw stones. I'm in no way encouraging anyone to have an affair, but I cannot say one thing and do another.