thisisarandomperson Posted February 11, 2006 Posted February 11, 2006 Ok me and this girl are having a LDR. We plan to meet on the coming valentines day and we've bought loads of gifts for each other. She has made it very clear recently that she wanted to be with me for a very long time and said quite a lot of soppy but meaningful stuff. We are very much in love with each other. Then this morning she texts me saying she wanted to go to uni in australia, which is on the other side of the world to us. Although she won't be going for another 2-3 years time, it still upsets me. Why? Because i thought and want us to be together for a long time, and it hurts that she has not included me in her future plans. I asked "what about me?" and she just said "i dunno". I told her that it hurts and why. Then she said that it scares her a bit that i want us to be together for years. But that is what she has been saying to me in the past and isn't that what people that are in love supposed to think? I asked if she was having doubts and if she wanted us to be together and she said she wasn't having doubts and that she wanted us to be together. So this has confused me a lot and upset me quite a bit. Worst of all, she says she doesn't know why im upset by it all. So what do i do? How should i interpret this? I don't have much experience with women unfortunately so i don't know what to think of it all. She hasnt had much experience with women either. Im 17 and she is soon to be 17 as well.
justsomeguy Posted February 11, 2006 Posted February 11, 2006 That is 2-3 years from now. Maybe she won't go there, or maybe you will complete your relationship with her before then. Either way remember that it is best to take whatever relationships you can at the time because they will give you valuable experience for your future.
stephInDaDistrict Posted February 12, 2006 Posted February 12, 2006 Oh man you gotta give this time. Thats so long from now. And if that is a dream of hers and something that she wants, you should be supportive. I know I would be like what the F*C*K too, but its so long from now. You might find some more detrimental things than her moving. Or you may work it out and she might never wanna leave..........
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