CosmicBrat Posted February 11, 2006 Posted February 11, 2006 How do I deal with Divorce?... Young lady asked: "i just want to ask you if you have gone through divorce, and do you know how did you deal with it? I'm scared. What would you do?" Find something tiny, in the whole big mess, that's a real positive.. and cling to it like you clung to your baby-blanket, for dear life, when you were two, and alone, and real scared... ... And know that it's a new life ahead of you now... only just a little faster than you are accustomed to.. so try to speed yourself up a little for the duration... It's only "Change".. and our religion has taught us to fear anything that brings change, because they fear that change doesn't include them... so give your religion a little rest, and just let things go where they goes.. "just let the cart go where the donkey pulls it"... and always be there with all your wits, with as many thrusters on as you can process.. always ready to catch fragile things should they begin to fall... Try to live each hour.. bathed in some of your keen raw insight.. and your solid handle on the past, the present, and the future... Add all your powers to that project.. and it be very likely that nothing will go wrong, even if it can, and even if it tries to.. and even if "schnookum's law is clawing at your back and up your nose"... ____________________ "I suppose I could just try to suffer through it." The suffering thingy is Life's Biggest thorn... The key is:.. If you can take your "suffer", the moment it has switched-on, and turn it into a little bit of anger.. and immediately look to an extreme positive.. like say, "The Sun gives me Life".. and imagine yourself breathing in sunlight.. and using the sunlight, in combination with your "ball of naughty anger", as fuel, to permit you caress a pine-tree, with an imaginary twenty foot wide hand... You will have instantly mutated the anger into creativity.. and the suffer will have vanished... and you might even suddenly feel like singing, or dancing, running, or even "flying"... Use great Caution when mutating Anger into Creativity, because the process holds the potential to release ALL your dormant-powers right straight at one thing... My lady-warrior friend, in Calgary, uses this process to do things like unlock a car door after she has accidentally locked the keys inside... And she uses it to deflect unwanted goofy horny males pestering and hitting on her, by telepathically sending into the minds of the irritating boys, her powerful imagining that they are coupled together... That stops them cold... So just go have yourself a pardy with all your great new powers... Remember:.. The two greatest powers in all Life.. are Love and Creativity... Always use those great powers Only for Love and Creativity, or they will hurt you BIGTIME!... I believe it's "cosmic law"... _____________________ "The really painful part is that i will not see my son for a year..." I sure KNOW what that feels like!... It bloody well STINGS deep inside, like something is sticking you with a needle from inside your head... ...Two of us broke up when I caught her screwing a soldier on the couch in her apartment... I had the key, and walked right in, and just stood there in Shock! STUNNED!.. and left quietly, when I got my legs working.. closed the door quietly.. and nearly fell down the stairs.. My whole body felt like it weighed a ton.. My head was ringing loud tones... It was difficult to walk... I heard him laugh, and say, "Did you see the look on his face!?".. and she laughed.. and it stung me like spear driven right through me.. and twisted like with a vengeance... I hung onto the railing real tight... and unbuttoned my shirt where it stung so big... to check for a hole and blood... I got my breath back, and made it down the stairs... my head felt like it was seriously spinning inside... and the screeching sounds in my head were almost deafening... ...In the car I wondered why it wasn't moving..? I didn't hear the screeching tires.. they made the same sounds that were in my head... When I released the gas peddle a bit, the car finally moved.. forward very FAST!.. Seems I left a huge set of long tire skid-marks on the road in front of her place... I guess I just wanted to get away from her as fast as possible... I drove a couple blocks.. and couldn't drive safely anymore, so I parked at the curb awhile.. hugging the steering wheel.. and feeling like I had just been ripped to pieces... She was pregnant with my baby... She moved to the other side of the continent with her parents, and got married... 15-years later, I'm just doing things, when I get this mornful cry in my mind, "clear as a bell".. a young girl's voice asking, "Who is this beast molesting me who claims to be my father?.. Who is my father?.. What is Truth?!" It nearly floored me... I dove deep into trance, and checked it out... Turned out it was my daughter, on the other side of the continent... She was laying in bed, sobbing... I lay beside her, my cosmic-self, and held her CLOSE.. She sensed me there, and stirred, and said "Daddy?"... I whispered into her mind, "You're Safe.. Sleep!"... and I held her close for a couple hours, as long as I could maintain the high-powered trance state.. caressing her back and shoulders, while I made modifications in her powercore and thinking processes.. and she relaxed, and settled into deep sleep... A couple years later, she was in university.. said her uncle who still lived in my town... I would love to be able to hold her just once.. then maybe the sting would go away... Point is: Maybe you can do this with your son, when there's a lot of space between you and him... What is stopping you from doing this?.. ________________________ "i just never thought of it that way. i'll try it. Now i feel like I'm being hugged by someone. i know it sounds weird but that's what it feels like." Not "weird"... just realisticly normal... You need to do all the tiny wee things required to build your confidence.. like capitalizing your "i's" to "I", for a start... There are probably a lot of little things that you might notice yourself just letting go by... like just not feeling up enough to tidy a drawer, when you see that it needs some attention.. or polish the sink faucets.. or something..? Like if you live in a snowy area.. when you clean the snow off the car's windows.. you force yourself to do a meticulous job in cleaning all the snow off the car, even if it means you must get out there a few minutes earlier than usual... Every little thing you notice that needs be done, jump right into it.. like even suddenly noticing a candybar wrapper littering your space.. you interrupt your processes, and immediately deal with it.. or you see a dead-bug on your window-sill.. and you deal with it the moment you notice it needs to be dealt with... I saw on teevee, a talk host bad-mouthing an old lady he heard about, who supposedly literally "jumped out of bed, and started vacuuming the house."... I didn't see anything wrong in it.. except how she must have felt if she was watching his show... So I set up the vacuum by the bed.. and the next morning I jumped out of bed, and started vacuuming.. and something good clicked in me... I wasn't lazy anymore... I don't watch that talk show anymore.. that talk show host is "poison"... ...Suddenly you are filling your life up with so much Life, that there isn't any time to labor on pain... and it all feels like yesterday, and everything is OK now.. like it should be... Do anything you can think of to boost your pride.. like keeping your walks clean.. your vehicle clean and tidy.. everything in your living space neat and tidy.. one "puzzle-piece" at a time.. but don't push yourself.. just go slow and easy.. Break immediately, when it feels like a break is called for.. Eat when only when your are hungry.. and just a little, just enough to not feel hungry... Forget about "regular meals".. dump that "three meals a day" craziness.. it's not healthy... And for sure don't be supplementing your pain removal with increased eating habits.. that only keeps you busy for fleeting moments.. and will only damage your health, and shorten your life... Are you doing daily exercises?.. Just ten minutes a day is enough... more is better... I've learned that doing things to keep my hands real busy, eases out the pain... and if I really get into what I'm doing, the reasons for the pain seem to have vanished... until an unexpected trigger brings it all back.. so then it's back to keeping myself busy again.. or sleep... so I'm usually always busy at something... Some call us "workaholics"... If they had this much pain they would be "workaholics" too.. or it would destroy them.. or they'd need to take a lot of dangerous pills to dull all the pain, like this crazy culture does... The BEST thing I can think of for this, is to take daily, a strong multi-vitamin/multi-mineral.. and a multi-amino acid... I tried WallMart amino-acids.. they don't feel to be real when they are inside my body.. I avoid WallMart and department store pharmacies like I'd avoid a plague... Go to a real drugstore, or major healthfood and nutrient shop, in the big Cities.. not the goofy little shops... For the multi-vitamin/mineral, I recommend "Centrum Forte".. The price is right, it makes me feel mildly good, and it doesn't make me sleepy like some poor quality multi-vitamins do... Our overly processed foods these days are for the most part, sterile of what the body needs to live healthy, wealthy, and wise... And.. You ARE being hugged Sis... by all your sisters and brothers who posted here for you... You are IMPORTANT to us... .
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