justsomeguy Posted February 11, 2006 Posted February 11, 2006 I have a "hypothetical" question. Would a girl be more likely to tell her friends about a boy (name & story) if 1. He told her he liked her (and she liked him) 2. He told her he liked her (and she didn't like him) In both cases she doesn't tell the boy anything. And I was thinking about myself as a guy and and if a girl told me she liked me and that made me lose interest in her I can't imagine telling my friends who she is and her name.
clandestinidad Posted February 11, 2006 Posted February 11, 2006 I'm a little confused about your post. I think if anyone told a girl they liked her, whether it was 'good' or 'bad' to her, she'll tell her friends. Its something to talk about either way....whether to encourage her or laugh about it with her Is that what you were asking??
7on Posted February 11, 2006 Posted February 11, 2006 I assume with a girl she'll tell her friends everything. So assume everything you tell her will end up in the ears of her friends.
HokeyReligions Posted February 11, 2006 Posted February 11, 2006 Some will, some won't. You can't apply one 'rule' to everyone. If you like a girl, tell her. If you don't like her enough to risk her telling her friends - then don't tell her. If a girl tells you she likes you and you immediately lose interest in her, stop and think about why? Maybe your interest wasn't in the girl herself, but in the pursuit / flirting. Have enough compassion to let her know that you are not interested in her without putting her down. If word gets back to your friends just tell them that you didn't feel like you clicked with her and leave it at that. There is no shame in letting someone know you like them, or in not liking someone who shows an interest in you. It happens all the time and is just part of life. If your friends can't be mature about it, then lead by example and be mature about it yourself. Remember, your friends (and hers) will face the same situation too.
Author justsomeguy Posted February 11, 2006 Author Posted February 11, 2006 This is about something I already did. So I was like, hey, she sure told her friends about me probably because of that. A girl I never even met before, that is one of her friends, knew my first and last name. She didn't know I saw her but I heard her say it and later she told the girl she saw me go into a store and they watched and waited for me to come out while they were waiting for their pickup food to be made and while I was shoppig. They said they somehow missed me coming out though, (which is because I was getting a prescription filled that took forever). Just something interesting and highly by chance that happened and wondered what kind of conclusions people would imagine. I always imagined she really liked me or would but I knew I did some wrong things that turned her off. I didn't blame myself. There were things going on at the time that prevented me from doing what I wanted. So becuase I thought she was turned off that is why I was so surprised she told her friends my full name that don't even know me and they they told her about spotting me out and about. The girls I told never said she didn't like me, she just told me what I alrady knew. That due to certain distance circumstances it was impossible at the time. And by the time it was no longer and issue I wasn't sure what I wanted anymore.
Author justsomeguy Posted February 11, 2006 Author Posted February 11, 2006 I'm a little confused about your post. I think if anyone told a girl they liked her, whether it was 'good' or 'bad' to her, she'll tell her friends. Its something to talk about either way....whether to encourage her or laugh about it with her Is that what you were asking?? Actually I was going to tell her how silly I thought situation was way before the friend thing, but It never happened. We both had a two word vocabulary and somehow managed to run into eachother a million times, which I found very funny. But now that I've explained my post and you know it really happened that should help anyone answer.
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