LonelyinOhio Posted February 10, 2006 Posted February 10, 2006 Everyone -- wanted to share with you something that hit me out of the blue yesterday. Been dealing with this BU for one month now...and it just seemed to stick around and I couldn't shake it. It hit me that YOUR LIFE IS ABOUT LIVING FOR YOUR FUTURE. It's not about living for your past, or even sometimes, your present. It's about understanding that your future IS bright, you WILL see great days ahead and it's up to you to decide when to start focusing on this. When you KNOW, really KNOW, that your future is bright, you'll start to recover faster. I only came to fully understand this yesterday, and today is still hard for me -- but I'm not paralyzed in the pain I've been suffering for a month. It hurts, but I am able to overlook it because now I really understand that it's just temporary. Bottom line: every minute you spend thinking about your ex is a minute you spend living in your past. You can regret your past, you can wish for your past, and you can think of your past all you want....but you CANNOT change it. You can change your future - so decide to start doing that today, and you'll be well on your way in no time. I just know it take care everyone and God bless.
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