falling out of love

[Guest]

ok i have known this girl for about 6 months now... Now i feel almost 'bored' with her as i am falling out of love with her. I know inside, i dont want this to happen. part of me says 'screw it' and part of me says keep on trying. I am very confused and dont know what to think. i need help asap!!!

[BeFree]

Actually, you are probably falling out of LUST with her and in six months it never moved to the love stage. Time to end it. Better now than another 6 months from now.

[Rosalind]

Do you gawk at other chicks?...Do you find yourself developing a crush on someone new?...just a couple of red flags.

 

Best to end it now, before she gets very, very hurt.

[whichwayisup]

ok i have known this girl for about 6 months now... Now i feel almost 'bored' with her as i am falling out of love with her. I know inside, i dont want this to happen. part of me says 'screw it' and part of me says keep on trying. I am very confused and dont know what to think. i need help asap!!!

 

Okay these are the things that could be happening...

 

1)You don't love her, you were in "lust" with her, and now that the crushy feeling and lust is slowly disappearing, you're losing interest and don't like her the way you did at the beginning. (Which if this is the case, then you need to end it)

 

2)You DO like her, but are scared and it is making you feel more than you expected, which in turn has confused you and made you question it all. (Doubtful, but I had to put that in there anyway...)

 

3) Maybe she is someone that you could have a wonderful relationship with, but now it will take some work, where as before you didn't have to work hard because of the "new stages" of the relationship. So that means abit of change, more effort and you're not used to putting effort in to make someone happy.

 

If you like her, then give it time to grow. If you don't like her anymore then end it.