tweedle-dee Posted February 9, 2006 Posted February 9, 2006 I just had the most amazing sex with my bf after god knows how long (even though we are together every single day). We get up, I go make him food for tomorrow as he sits and watches the tv. After 45 minutes, I go to check up on his to see if he wants any fruits, he says no, come sit with me, I take a look at the tv, I find him watching a naked female stripper in a cop uniform and care less to know what it is he is watching.. I tell him normally not being upset or moody, no thanks, we just had sex and you're watching that! and ended it with a laugh. (I'm not open minded about doing this and especially after we just had sex). The answer that I get from him is that I'm so boring! I can't sleep, I can't move. I feel so paralyzed. Is this normal? Am I overreacting??? Help.
whichwayisup Posted February 9, 2006 Posted February 9, 2006 He called you boring? How was his tone when he said that? Joking or serious? Man, if that had been me I would've just turned around, told him he's on the couch for the night and gone upstairs to bed!
Author tweedle-dee Posted February 9, 2006 Author Posted February 9, 2006 He called you boring? How was his tone when he said that? Joking or serious? Man, if that had been me I would've just turned around, told him he's on the couch for the night and gone upstairs to bed! He was serious!! He called me boring! I can't believe it! I went to bed, can't sleep. He came to sleep. He's like it's just a movie! and now he's sleeping and snoring as if nothing happened......... He's mad with me now!! I'm the f* up one! Was I wrong??????? Am I supposed to be normal???
whichwayisup Posted February 9, 2006 Posted February 9, 2006 You two really need to talk. Find out why he is being so distant from you and acting all pissy and rude. I know it's not going to be fun or comfortable, but the longer you wait, the worse you will feel. Not knowing what is going on, why he is acting that way with you - So distant - WILL make this situation worse. Try to tell him how it makes you feel when he does these things. Don't fight about it, keep it calm, because if you start throwing accusations out at him (Not saying you will though) he will get defensive and clam up. Ask him what it is that you're doing that isn't making him happy. Ask him what needs are not being met. Then tell him what needs aren't being met that you aren't getting from him.
Recommended Posts