Justme888 Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 I just don't understand this guy. I ahve written here before about him, but now I am stuck, screwed and going to be sad if it ends. This guy and I have been dating since beginning of November and I had just gotten out of a realtionship, but I have wanted to be with the guy I am presently with now for over two years. Well it finally has happened only for me to realize how inconsiderate and stubborn he can be. I feel like I wait around for hi severy last word and action. Liek nothing can be over with until he has the say-He has always got to be in control. I am the type that just doesn't take that sort of behavior from anyone. I speak my mind about it and than I get the lame excuses of how he hasn't been in a relationship in 3 yrs. He is 26 and needs to get out of his bubble. So I was wondering if anyone ever thinks this will change or am I just wasting time? And another thing with him is the lack of consideration. We live over an hour away and see eachother 2 days a week. These days are pretty designated in my mind. Like I will not plan anything on those days just to see him. Or think that I will be seeing him. He says he loves being with me and blah, blah, blah but he won't ever compromise with me. I feel like when it is convenient for him than he will do something for me or for us I should say. I don't know why he fills my head with all this crap about him caring about me and wanting to get to know me better. He planned to go to Tampa on his Bday with sone of his friends that just got a divorce. And on the phone I hear my guy telling this friend that he will find him a girl. Is that supposed to be comforting to me when he goes down to Florida with a bunch of guys?? I am sorry if this is jumbled, but that is how my mind is right now. Hope someone can help...Theres so much more but too much to write about.
d'Arthez Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 I would say, get out. Behaviors like that tend to get worse, and worse, and worse. Don't expect to change him, that simply will not happen. The lack of compromising, the lack of being at ease (non-controlling). If you stay with him, he will see little point in changing, as it simply works for him.
SuperMonk Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Seems like he's not that into you. Like the above poster ^^^ get out, make amends and prepare to dump him.
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