Author kjo314 Posted February 8, 2006 Author Posted February 8, 2006 I want to take the option that will allow me together back.... so what do I e-mail her with? What do I say in the e-mail?
Author kjo314 Posted February 8, 2006 Author Posted February 8, 2006 "to get her" is all one word right??? lol
cygny Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 yeah--there is a hidden logic there lol just tell her something light and jokey--sorry hon can't talk now i have a date tonight--that's the general idea... the date thing--well yeah go out and find a chick to talk to so you aren't lying. the point is, why have one of those awful relationship talks if you've moved on? haha, i bet this will rile her up a bit, i'd love to see what happens (evil cygny grins)
Author kjo314 Posted February 9, 2006 Author Posted February 9, 2006 Ok I told her what was done is done and I don't want to talk because I have a "date" on friday night and I will be visiting my parents tomorrow. Which is true!! How was that? I feel assholish. but oh well
cygny Posted February 9, 2006 Posted February 9, 2006 hey, not bad. if you didn't feel a bit a-holish you wouldn't have been doing your job right, lol. so for next time, work on being jokey and teasey, and adding that into the mix. that is the bait that will bring her back, so its important you develop that.
Author kjo314 Posted February 9, 2006 Author Posted February 9, 2006 you don't think that pissed her off?
Author kjo314 Posted February 10, 2006 Author Posted February 10, 2006 Alright I sent her that one and she sent me this one back..... You sound busy yourself, kiddo! Why don't we try to talk over the weekend? What should I e-mail back?
cygny Posted February 10, 2006 Posted February 10, 2006 tell her -- hey there chickie, nice to hear from you but sorry, no can do this weekend. -- ps to kjo--does this answer your question about whether she was pissed off? lol.
magda Posted February 10, 2006 Posted February 10, 2006 You could say that right now you are having fun living in the present and don't want to bother dragging up the past. "If I change my mind I'll let ya know!"
Author kjo314 Posted February 10, 2006 Author Posted February 10, 2006 yea...yea....it just seems like she is trying to activate the friendship... I just can't let her... right?
cygny Posted February 10, 2006 Posted February 10, 2006 right. but also you are keeping the door open. warm words, cool actions. think about that. keep it light and fun.
Author kjo314 Posted February 11, 2006 Author Posted February 11, 2006 she wants a guy... it is obvious and she is depressed that she can't find one... I am upset thinking she wants anyone BUT me.... it hurts..
Author kjo314 Posted February 11, 2006 Author Posted February 11, 2006 Ok i sent it.....man i wish she would just give in to love sometimes..... She wants a guy... but not me... I don't understand why... she is in pain because she can't find one yet I am right here .... darnit i don't get it
Author kjo314 Posted February 12, 2006 Author Posted February 12, 2006 So... she hasn't sent me a reply yet and I am a tad worried....
cygny Posted February 12, 2006 Posted February 12, 2006 no kjo everything is fine. she needs to 'process' the new you. she doesn't quite know what to do now that her dependable guy is off living his own life and doesn't have time to talk to her. secretly she loves it. you are confusing the hell out of her. you may not hear from her for awhile now. so sit back and relax.
Author kjo314 Posted February 12, 2006 Author Posted February 12, 2006 aight... i trust you... love is crazy..
Author kjo314 Posted February 12, 2006 Author Posted February 12, 2006 how long is a while in your opinion?
Author kjo314 Posted February 12, 2006 Author Posted February 12, 2006 why does she love it??? becasue I am leaving her alone.. or because of something else?
cygny Posted February 12, 2006 Posted February 12, 2006 could be a week, could be a month, i dunno. don't sweat it.
cygny Posted February 12, 2006 Posted February 12, 2006 why does she love it??? becasue I am leaving her alone.. or because of something else? because you have become unpredictable and that is secretly very exciting.
Author kjo314 Posted February 12, 2006 Author Posted February 12, 2006 Alright... welll today I was wiating for my mother to call and she called me. I don't have caller Id so I picked it up thinking it was her.... She was like all happy until I told her I was too busy to talk and that she had just woken me up from a nap (which she had). She was like... I know you were busy but I wanted to call....to talk to you. I told her I couldn' talk and she as like.. Well when you get a chance call me or ill call you...... She sounded really depressing it was weird... Like after I told her that I was busy she sounded all depressed she was like "I will do a lot of my paper so that we will have time this week to talk" and I was thinking..."darn she just woke me up fro ma nap" I don't know what that means but.... what to do?
dr strangelove Posted February 13, 2006 Posted February 13, 2006 Hmm how old are you KJO ? And my second question if you were to get her back at what point would you or her make the sacrifice and move closer?
Author kjo314 Posted February 13, 2006 Author Posted February 13, 2006 i am 21... I already offered to move down there for her...
Author kjo314 Posted February 13, 2006 Author Posted February 13, 2006 I just can't help but think that she is trying to get together with other guys... I mean I don't understand how this is going to work... it seems like all it is doing is pissing her off.... however... it seems logically that it would work as well.
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