MatchstickFear Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Over Christmas, I broke up with my boyfriend of five years (I had every reason to, I wasn't just being a random bitch!). That phone call was probably the most difficult, EVER. but at the same time it is strangely liberating since we had such a complex and intense relationship, that I understand NOW was pretty unhealthy. It's so weird, how you go months barely even considering his existance, and then one day.... for whatever random reason..... he enters your thoughts, and you become so consumed with saddness that you can hardly stand. God, love is so weird and painful!
panzer6 Posted February 10, 2006 Posted February 10, 2006 My ex dumped me over the phone and i think it is a very cold thing to do. If you don't want somebody in your life you should at least have the decency to tell them to their face. I understand how you feel though, you go months with no feelings for them and then all of a sudden it all comes rushing back and you feel the pain all over again. It's because even though you may not love them anymore the fact remains that you did love them once before. Whether you love them or not you will always carry that with you. Our experiences shape our personalities and they show themselves through our memories. Just be willing to feel them and see them for what they are. Im feeling alot of pain myself as I am only 1 month into the breakup and I am trying to maintain NC as best I can. It isn't easy but anything worth having is never easy and my sanity is definitely worth having.
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