mysticalstar Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Hi. Hopefully someone can give me some advice! I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year and half...why who knows! I just started to lose feelings. Also the past few months I have been talking to my ex-boyfriend who I have been with off and on for the past few years and going behind my boyfriends back. So i just got tired of doing that and realized it wasn't fair to him so we ended it and it was mutual. Well now my old boyfriend is back in the picture again. For some reason he has always held a strong place in my heart. However, in the past he has cheated on me. Now i'm not trying to make any excuses...but we were young. He also did not treat me very well. He would always say he would call and then never would or he would always break plans. We would occasionally sleep together and then that would be it for a few weeks and then do it all over again. Everytime I would get a boyfriend he would jump back in the picture and be "interested." Well before this time it has been almost 2 years since we have been with each other. I think he him again. Anyways...I guess my question to you is...Do you think people can played a part in my breakup because my feelings were starting to go towards change? He has been good about our relationship this time calling all the time and doing things with me. We have not yet slept together this time. What do you think? Please let me know! Is it always once a cheater always a cheater? I hope not.
GuerreroAzteca Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 From my understanding this guy, was using you before. Thus i doubt he will change his behavior. If your relationship with him were to flourish he would need to completley change the way he behaved before to a caring, faithfull, loving gentleman. Sounds farfetched. You should not even linger with that guy any longer.
unimoko Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Yeah, that sucks. I've met guys who like their cake and want to eat it too. And the sad thing is that some of them NEVER get out of it. Its sounds like this particular guy likes the familiarity of having you, but not feeling obligated to you. I think you knew it too, that's why you moved on and tried to date other men. I've seen this thing last between "couples" for years....the best thing is to see it for it is and detox yourself from him because he will let it go on and on and you will be missing other avaliable men that you are compatiable with -the unimoko
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