brokenherted Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 Ok the title's not quite right. Have any of you discovered an affair. Got over it, made your marriage work, and then discovered another one. If so and you could go back in time would you rather had kicked their cheating ass out back then ? (For the record my wife has to the best of my knowledge only cheated on me once and that only an emotional affair but it may well be the end of us as we have no kids and I cant get over the idea that she could so easily do it again).
Mz. Pixie Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Well, my husband married me knowing that I cheated in my first marriage. He knows that I cheated because I had needs that were not being met and since he plans on meeting those needs then he feels it will not be an issue in our relationship. In reading your other posts, it doesn't seem like she broke off her A in the first place. I think she lied and told you that she did. Would you like to give us more details??
brokenhert Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Would you like to give us more details?? Happy to but dont know where to start. In reading your other posts, it doesn't seem like she broke off her A in the first place. I think she lied and told you that she did. Thats what I am thinking too.
Author brokenherted Posted February 8, 2006 Author Posted February 8, 2006 In reading your other posts, it doesn't seem like she broke off her A in the first place. I think she lied and told you that she did. Thats what I am thinking too. Would you like to give us more details?? Happy to but not sure where to start or what to say. The stuff in my other posts you have read and thank you for connecting them together but beyond that the only other thing I can say is that I love her but I think I will have to leave her.
Mz. Pixie Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Start in the beginning- How long you guys have been married?? How many kids?? How did you exactly find out about the affair?? Etc.
mopar crazy Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Ok the title's not quite right. Have any of you discovered an affair. Got over it, made your marriage work, and then discovered another one. If so and you could go back in time would you rather had kicked their cheating ass out back then ? (For the record my wife has to the best of my knowledge only cheated on me once and that only an emotional affair but it may well be the end of us as we have no kids and I cant get over the idea that she could so easily do it again). I haven't discovered another A but I can tell you if he ever cheats on me again his a$$ will be kicked to the curb and he knows it. But then again I told him b4 his first A if he ever had one I would leave him and never let him back but I did. However, I really don't think I will take him back if he has another A. If I would of known he was going to cheat again I would of never taken him back. If I would of known he was going to cheat the first time I would of never M him.
Author brokenherted Posted February 9, 2006 Author Posted February 9, 2006 Ok I'll be back to talk to you all some more but not right now. I am going to get away for a few days, see some friends and drink some beer.
SueBee3490 Posted February 9, 2006 Posted February 9, 2006 I wish I hadn't taken my bf back when he cheated on me the first time. I took my bf back and he even had me believing it was my fault! After I took him back with his promise of "never doing that again because he saw how much it hurt me" pledge, I thought he was sincere. Should have never trusted him again. He continued to cheat knowing how much he hurt me the first time around. I wish I would have cut my losses and run before getting deeper into this relationship. Maybe I would have found a "decent" man by now instead of wasting 5 years of my life.
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