brokenherted Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 Ok so she cheated on me. I am willing to believe (despite the evidence) that it was only an emotional affair and never went beyond a kiss. At which point she backed off. I know he wrote to her to say he felt dumped so something like this happened. But they stayed at least friends and he certainly was trying to get her into bed even after that dumped message. Anyway to try to get to my point. When I found out I insisted she make the "I cant be friends with you or see you ever again" phone call, and I told her that I loved her and I wanted us to work things out. I rang him and told him I would tell his wife if he ever tried to contact her again. I asked her to promise me to tell me if he ever did. Thing is I found a text message from him to her. His phone number was in her phone as "Jenny". She claims it was an old one but deleted it as soon as I confronted her without showing me the date. Now I am thinking of either moving out or telling her to get her cheating ass the hell out of my life. And thats the history of why I am asking any of you that have been somewhere similar. How, no matter what she says now can I ever trust in her again. Even if I want this marriage to continue how can it if I am forever concerned about where she is and what she is doing. Please dont point out how foolish I was to marry a girl that cheated on her fiance at the time we met to be with me. We stayed together for years, travelled the world together, and we really were so deeply in love when we married. But if she could do this to me now what can she or I possible say or do to stop me thinking she could do it again ?
Bryanp Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 There is an old saying that is seems to be very accurate: If she cheats with you, she will cheat on you!
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