junty Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 Here's a short summary. Dated someone for 6 months. She cheated on me and we broke up. She left town shortly after and I told her I didn't want to speak to her in a long time or ever again or something to that respect. 7 months NC, I even ignored one of her calls! Yay me. Well she showed up back in town to visit and I declined her invitation to meet up. So I was leaving the bar and called a friend to hang out. She answered the phone. I was a little intoxicated and curious so I went over and hung out. It went great. There were people around so no animosity or anger came out. We had a great time hanging out. The sexual tension was through the roof. We ended up making plans for lunch. Went to lunch it was a little awkward. She gave me a heartfelt apology and I was a happy with that. I gave her a piece of my mind about how the break up went down and then we talked for about an hour about stuff. It was a good time. Haven't talked to her since. She gave me her new email address. Heres the thing. I am actually glad I talked to her because I had some misconceptions about her and I know that she is a good girl, she just screwed me over. I don't hate her anymore and that is a good thing. I could honestly say that I had pretty much moved on but now after talking and reconciling I am totally in love with her. This sucks. I have an awesome girlfriend right now who I do love. She is so laid back and it is the best sex ever. It is some really great sex. With all that said should I stay in a very limited contact with my ex? I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell my ex I am fine being friends and then not contact her anymore. Is that ok to do?
CaliGuy Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 Here's a short summary. Dated someone for 6 months. She cheated on me and we broke up. She left town shortly after and I told her I didn't want to speak to her in a long time or ever again or something to that respect. 7 months NC, I even ignored one of her calls! Yay me. Well she showed up back in town to visit and I declined her invitation to meet up. So I was leaving the bar and called a friend to hang out. She answered the phone. I was a little intoxicated and curious so I went over and hung out. It went great. There were people around so no animosity or anger came out. We had a great time hanging out. The sexual tension was through the roof. We ended up making plans for lunch. Went to lunch it was a little awkward. She gave me a heartfelt apology and I was a happy with that. I gave her a piece of my mind about how the break up went down and then we talked for about an hour about stuff. It was a good time. Haven't talked to her since. She gave me her new email address. Heres the thing. I am actually glad I talked to her because I had some misconceptions about her and I know that she is a good girl, she just screwed me over. I don't hate her anymore and that is a good thing. I could honestly say that I had pretty much moved on but now after talking and reconciling I am totally in love with her. This sucks. I have an awesome girlfriend right now who I do love. She is so laid back and it is the best sex ever. It is some really great sex. With all that said should I stay in a very limited contact with my ex? I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell my ex I am fine being friends and then not contact her anymore. Is that ok to do? Ok, I've never said this to anyone on LS before but... ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR FREAKING MIND?! First off, if you have a g/f you are totally in to why are you even wasting a minute of your time talking to someone that hurt you in one of the worst ways imaginable?! You do need to be taken behind a shed and be horse-whipped. You have a great woman now and you're posting here lamenting how you want to be with someone that treated you like crap. Women, men do this too. Men, learn from this. This is what's going through a woman's mind when she leaves a great guy for that jerk. Same thing. You have someone great now but you're so insatiable you're never happy.
In Sync Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 ...Heres the thing. I am actually glad I talked to her because I had some misconceptions about her and I know that she is a good girl, she just screwed me over. I don't hate her anymore and that is a good thing. I could honestly say that I had pretty much moved on but now after talking and reconciling I am totally in love with her. This sucks. I have an awesome girlfriend right now who I do love. She is so laid back and it is the best sex ever. It is some really great sex. With all that said should I stay in a very limited contact with my ex? I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell my ex I am fine being friends and then not contact her anymore. Is that ok to do? First of all You were NOT over this girl so your story is proof that you shouldn't have broken NC...now you are torn between maintaining limited contact, WTF?? Is that a loophole term to provide an excuse to being plain dumb...You Have A Girlfriend with whom You are Having Great SEX....And you want to invite trouble back into your life???? Can Someone explain this DaVinci Code to me...What FOR are you wanting to keep in contact with the ex...To Create Drama..For a spare Booty Call? People like you enjoy being unhappy, because they don't recognize a good situation when they're in one. Listen, Cassanova, before you ruin your present situation with your girlfriend ...grab a hammer whack yourself in the head and then reconsider if hurting the awesome gf for someone who already screwed you over is such a great idea...and trust me your ex will screw you twice!
riobikini Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Two cows were standing next to each other in a field. The first cow turns to the second and asks, " What do you think about all this stuff going on about Mad Cow Disease, and aren't you just terrified about it?" The second cow answers, " Why should I be worried? I'm not a cow, I'm a chicken". Look, man, you can tell yourself you are anything in the world, but most of all you are this: still chasing the wrong girl. This little heifer is certainly Mad Cow Disease to you. Mooove on down the road. (Smile) -Rio
pippen_2k Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 Hmmmm stick with a girl who you really dig and have great sex with, or play emails with an ex who cheated on you...... Tough call.
riobikini Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 RE: Rio, that was hilarious! CG, he is still not immooooone (immune) to her. -Rio
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