CaliGuy Posted February 10, 2006 Posted February 10, 2006 Well Ok then! But the idea of taking that pot-shot is bringing a smile to my face and making me feel better now.... lol I like the idea of her reading it and getting all depressed that she let a good one slip away.... Because you're not over her. When you truly are, you will not care how she feels about you. It won't matter For now, and probably forever, I'll just use the imagery to lift my spirits... Try letting go, it works wonders!
skeptik224 Posted February 10, 2006 Posted February 10, 2006 Someone else posted this saying on another thread... "Silence is the most profound goodbye you'll never hear"
Author Ruff Ryder Posted February 11, 2006 Author Posted February 11, 2006 Hey guys, Going strong like a lion... Well there are moments of weakness but that is to be expected. However she is still trying to contact me for reasons that I dont know and might never know. Maybe she is realizing what is gone and most possibly gone forever. V-day is in the air and all else fails we will just see what happens who knows maybe something happens to catch my attention then I'll know but till such time silence is the best goodbye. How is everone else doing? I trust that the weekend will be a good one for all and if its not well there is another one that starts in 7 odd days...
blind_otter Posted February 12, 2006 Posted February 12, 2006 Well good for you. I am still in contact with my ex and it is the stupidest type of interaction I've ever indulged in. It feels like a long, slow-motion trainwreck. Involving dismemberment and other equally painful and uncomfortable horrors. Unfortunately his kid likes me a lot. So the kid asks to see me, what can I say? I feel like a heel doing NC to an 8 year old. So I set it up so I'm babysitting another kid while he comes to visit me with his kid but it is just. so. icky.
Author Ruff Ryder Posted February 12, 2006 Author Posted February 12, 2006 Well, I have simply come up with the conclusion that life and all its battles and triaphes are all part of something bigger and better. It all happens for good reasons and some times to understand them is far harder than just accepting them and moving on. I have very much so started to clean up and move on. To all good luck in their quest. Blid otter it is hard and will be hard for as long as YOU let it be. The past is a horrible place to live so just dont do it. How can you know were your headed if you always look behind you?
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