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Am I bound to #$@% relationships all my life ?


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Today,

 

I don't feel really good at all. I am just getting out of a long relationship with my exgf of 13 months. She broke up with me.

 

I am 25. I have had a few experiences in my life and I actually realise that everytime I felt good in a relationship, the gf at the time always decided to end it up because her feelings changed or/and wanted to be a friend.

 

I also realise that the only time my exgfs got attached with me is when I cut the relationship short. In other words, I am pretty sure I would have kept the relationship going, I would have ended up being dumped.

 

A common sentence I heard all along is that they admired the way I respected them and how nice I was.

 

At this point in time, I feel like any relationships I will get into will fail...

 

What is happening ? What should I do ? Does anyone feel that way ?

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Sounds like you have 'nice guy' syndrome. Try reading up on the thread in the dating forum that list the qualities of nice guys, balanced guys and jerks. See how you fair in comparison.

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