hunnie831 Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 My boyfriend an I have been going out for 6 months. I show him all the time that I care about him. We are always together. And he doesnt show me he cares about me. He tells me he loves me and that hes so lucky to have me, but when he says it i dont believe him, because he doesnt show me. If something is said and not shown, you dont believe it. I dont know what to do. We have been through alot in 6 months and i really dont want to lose him. and he is pushing me away from him. He just always has a whatever atitude towars me, like if I broke up with him, he wouldnt have a care in the world..i dont understnad ??? ill leave him cute text messages once in a while that i love him and he means so mucht to me..and hell write it back, but i really dont think he means it..and he will do nice things to me like rub my back or give me a message just because i had to say something.. he wont do it because he wants to !!!
Mistaken Identity Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 He sounds like a good guy to me. He may just not be all that comfortable with expressing his affection. I know I'm not, but that doesn't mean I don't love the person.
whichwayisup Posted February 8, 2006 Posted February 8, 2006 He's a guy and guys have the tendency to not show emotions and act all touchy feely. If he is with you, makes love to you and you feel that connection - THAT is how he shows you his love. BELIEVE him when he tells you. Yes, it would be nice if he did some nice romantic things for him - But, he may not be that kind of guy. Talk to him about going away for a romantic getaway somewhere nice together. Plan something special for Valentines Day TOGETHER. 6 months isn't that long, so maybe he just needs more time. Good luck and keep posting! 1
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