Woggle Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 I always hear women say this when I beat them in an argument or I won't be a doormat for them but it could not be further from the truth. I love strong women but the women who most claim to be strong are not very strong at all. Here are 2 examples. A coworker of mine who is blatant msiadnrist which means she is a manhater. I have tried to be civil with her and get along but I have a penis so therefore I am the enemy. last week I finally had enough of her penis comments and threatened to report her and she accused me of being scared of a strong woman. Know I just can't stand having to work with a bitter manhating bitch who makes it her mission life to be nasty to me no matter what I do. Even when I was at my worst with the misogyny I was always civil at work with my coworkers. I at least tried to give women a chance. My ex left a message on my machine that I can't handle a strong woman and that is why I don't want her back and I love my fiance because she is a submissive stepford wife. WTF? My fiance is much more independent and tougher than my ex but she doesn't have that bitter manhating mentality so my ex considers her submissive. Yeah my ex is real strong when she has to lie in court to try take me to the cleaners and is still obsessed with me. The moral of the story is that many women think they are strong when they are just angry, nasty manhaters who repulse men and women alike. A truly strong person does not need to bring down others to bring themselves up. Many of these so called strong do not get that
ReluctantRomeo Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 On the contrary, I am attracted to strong women. Every girl I have ever dated would be considered strong. It's attractive IME, "strong women" and "nice guys" often have a lot in common: The label is self-applied It covers something else (bitch or doormat, for example) It's a self-validating excuse for why they can't get a date
Author Woggle Posted February 7, 2006 Author Posted February 7, 2006 I love real strong women. They are the greatest but manhating feminist types are the worst. Men who date feminists are masochists.
newbby Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 A coworker of mine who is blatant msiadnrist which means she is a manhater. I have tried to be civil with her and get along but I have a penis so therefore I am the enemy. last week I finally had enough of her penis comments and threatened to report her and she accused me of being scared of a strong woman. Know I just can't stand having to work with a bitter manhating bitch who makes it her mission life to be nasty to me no matter what I do. Even when I was at my worst with the misogyny I was always civil at work with my coworkers. I at least tried to give women a chance. My ex left a message on my machine that I can't handle a strong woman and that is why I don't want her back and I love my fiance because she is a submissive stepford wife. WTF? My fiance is much more independent and tougher than my ex but she doesn't have that bitter manhating mentality so my ex considers her submissive. Yeah my ex is real strong when she has to lie in court to try take me to the cleaners and is still obsessed with me. The moral of the story is that many women think they are strong when they are just angry, nasty manhaters who repulse men and women alike. A truly strong person does not need to bring down others to bring themselves up. Many of these so called strong do not get that these are just reactions to feeling rejected. people usually look for a reason why they were rejected, and come up with the one that is most flattering to themselves. okay so you/men rejected them for a reason, but it is your problem. its a perfectly natural, and understandable reaction to rejection. of course it is usually also self perpetuating, as you indictated in another thread of yours. there have been some great examples of this sort of behaviour in the ls recently. it is always good to have compassion and try to understand the other side, that way, you remove yourself as a participant in somebody elses psychological habits, hopefully helping them abit, and you dont get yourself riled up about it either.
SmoochieFace Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 Your dumbass coworker needs to be sacked immediately. That is just absolute blatant sexual harrassment.
SmoochieFace Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 My ex left a message on my machine that I can't handle a strong woman and that is why I don't want her back and I love my fiance because she is a submissive stepford wife. WTF? My fiance is much more independent and tougher than my ex but she doesn't have that bitter manhating mentality so my ex considers her submissive. Yeah my ex is real strong when she has to lie in court to try take me to the cleaners and is still obsessed with me. This is a fine example of why *rejection is NEVER your fault*. Read up on Dr. David Burns' book "Feeling Good" and pay particular note to what he says about rejection. Most people resort to silly and illogical thinking when they reject others - and it reveals more about themselves than it does about the other person.
Outcast Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 Wog, again, you are attributing the misdeeds of one human to all humans. This woman has issues. She's not a 'feminist'. She's not a 'strong woman'. She just 'has issues'. Why must you extrapolate one person's behaviour to all of humanity? It's not logical.
basscatcher Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 I have gfs like this and they are not strong women.. In reality they are not true Biaytchs in their core. They are women who have been hurt and rejected to the point they can't subconciously get past the pain so they will attack anyone who is a threat to them (their emotions) and that is typically the male species. It will take a softer, compassionate, empathetic, stronger (to control himself) caring and gentle man to break their harshness. Internally they are broken, damaged, bleeding, bruised and beaten in their spirit.. When you harm a wild animal they will become more vicious when injured to protect themselves. Women are like this if they can't heal from the hurt. It's easier to retailiate and become rude, cold, defensive and attack men then it is to take the chance of being vulnerable again.. This is my experience and what I have witnessed in my own life with my own friends..
kitten chick Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 Why do I have this feeling that we will one day see you on the news as a murder suspect? hmmm
kitten chick Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 not you pada. the OP. the one who has anger that he refuses to admit that he has. what a psycho.
SmoochieFace Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 not you pada. the OP. the one who has anger that he refuses to admit that he has. what a psycho. That's a bit stretching things, doncha think? I think his XW is the mental case... lying in court, leaving "*beep* you"-style messages on his answering machine, etc. SHE'S the nut, not Wog.
Author Woggle Posted February 7, 2006 Author Posted February 7, 2006 If I were a killer I would have killed a bunch of people a long time ago. I am a pacifist so I won't be doing any killing. At the same time I have a thing for violent imagery and entertainment.
SmoochieFace Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 At the same time I have a thing for violent imagery and entertainment. Ah, but saying this will have some people here saying "if you like that stuff then you are a nut blah blah you are full of it when you say that you are nonviolent blah blah" and all other sorts of ridiculous nonsense. Yeah, someone told me that since "The Shining" is my favourite film that automatically means I'm gonna be an axe-murderer. Yeah, right.
BeFree Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 woggle, you are completely right. My mother claims to be a strong woman. Claims she doesn't need a man to be happy and only wants to have sex with them. she has affairs with married men and says she is using them. Then why does she cry when she realizes these men can't hang out with her on the weekends? If she is so strong and doesn't want a man, why does she talk about it every chance she gets. A really stong woman wouldn't waist her time thinking about how stong she is, she just is.
Author Woggle Posted February 7, 2006 Author Posted February 7, 2006 Many so called string women think they are strong because they emulate the worst stereotypical traits of men. This is supposed to somehow empower them and free them but why do many of these women seem miserable? These types are really just scared little girls.
SmoochieFace Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 Many so called string women think they are strong because they emulate the worst stereotypical traits of men. This is supposed to somehow empower them and free them but why do many of these women seem miserable? These types are really just scared little girls. Because it's all a BS front. A tough hard exterior but rotten mush inside. Eventually the mush finds its way to the surface.
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