Laura-Anna Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 I had been dating a guy for a couple of weeks. The friday before last we went out and he asked me to be his girlfriend. When he dropped me off he asked me if he could see me the next day. Since I got out of work at 5 he told me he'd give me a call between 5:30 and 6. At 7:30 when I hadn't heard from him I sent him text message asking him if he still wanted to go out and to let me know because if not I was going to go out with my friends but got no response. The next morning I sent him another message saying that I didn't appreciate being stood up. Two days went by and I sent him another text message saying hi and asking him to call me when he was free. I still did't hear from him. Two days later I was in the car with a friend of mine and we were stopped at a red light a truck pulled up next to us... and there he was, honking his horn and practically hanging out of his window trying to say something to me. I didn't roll my window down so I don't know what he was saying, and I'm pretty sure I gave him a dirty look before turning away because I was angry. Five days have passed and I still haven't heard from him. Why would a guy do this?
justagirl1121 Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 I HAVE no idea. I had a friend i liked and he flirted in what i hoped was interest and not just he was a flirt by nature....we finally started hanging out...we went on what turned out to be a date, he was hitting on me, kissed me, so on and so forth....THEN he tells me he doesnt want a relationship, but yet wants to see where things go, but def still wants to be friends and not have this ruin that, we talked for the week after it happened, but now i havent heard from him in THREE weeks, and i called him last week and got no reply. I don't know why guys act that way at all. I say, ignore him. you've put in enough time. hopefully, he'll come to his senses and if you wait long enough, he'll give in. it worked for me the first time...that's when things for me started to look up....so just give him sometime and hopefully it'll take a step forward.
Spleen Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 It could be a possibility that maybe some emergency came up, or his phone could have been stolen, etc. If he didn't make the effort in a week to contact you or see you, he probably would have avoided you or ran hiding if he saw you in the car. I wonder why he would try so hard to get your attention if he didn't want to see you or have a good excuse to give you. Although, if he really did stand you up purposely, he'd have to have some nerve to try to talk to you like nothing happened.
Raven1845 Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 It could be a possibility that maybe some emergency came up, or his phone could have been stolen, etc. If he didn't make the effort in a week to contact you or see you, he probably would have avoided you or ran hiding if he saw you in the car. I wonder why he would try so hard to get your attention if he didn't want to see you or have a good excuse to give you. Although, if he really did stand you up purposely, he'd have to have some nerve to try to talk to you like nothing happened. I agree with Spleen. Anything could have happened with his phone. I noticed you said you only text messaged him and didn't actually call him. Text messages get me into trouble all the time. I think an actual phone call is better. Like Spleen stated, something could have happened to his phone. I know that the only place I keep phone numbers is in my cell phone. If something happened to his phone, he may not have had your number. (I don't know -- just giving him the benefit of the doubt). If he was practically hanging out of his truck to get your attention, I would find it difficult to believe he stood you up. As Spleen mentioned, you'd think he'd hide or avoid you if that were the case. I know if something had happened to me or my phone and I later saw the person I was suppose to have a date with, but didn't make it, and if they gave me a dirty look and ignored me when I was trying to talk to them, I probably wouldn't call them again either. I honestly don't mean to judge or mean that in a mean way, I'm just saying what I would have done. You may have wanted to at least listen to what he had to say. Why not try giving him a call again instead?
Lishy Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 I reckon he has lost his phone! Call his mobile and see who answers! Let us know what happens
swissair Posted February 7, 2006 Posted February 7, 2006 Are you guys kidding me? He lost his PHONE? COME ON! Maybe he was struck down with ebola. He's moved on and so should you!
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