am i nuts?!

[mysticalstar]

Hi everyone. I am in a bit of a situation so maybe someone can give some advice. Well my boyfriend and i dated for the past year and half and we now just decided to "take a break." It was a mutual decision based on the way we have been getting along which hasn't been the greatest. We broke up about a week ago and we are still friends. When we decided to break up I made it clear that we were allowed to see other people. Well this past weekend I got involved with one of my old flings. Nothing too serious happened other than kissing and watching movies. I never mentioned anything to my old boyfriend yet because I really do not want him to be hurt when I know deep down i'm going to hurt him more by not telling him. I plan on telling him when i figure out what is going to happen with my old flame and myself. He is someone I have always had feelings for but tried to get over him for the past few years becuase he has cheated on me before. that should be a red flag but I can't help my feelings. Am I nuts? So far things are starting off good for us...but he makes me nervous and i just want things to work out. Does anyone have any advice for me!?! i'd love to hear from you. thanks

[clandestinidad]

I'm sorry youre feeling caught between these two people you care about. Do you intend to get back together with your ex boyfriend? Or do you think it was a final break?

 

The only advice I have right now, is that you DO NOT do anything other than kissing this 'old flame' who's cheated on you before.

 

Males are not stupid....when they know that its easy to get someone they will try it, knowing that they have no intention to have a meaningful relationship with them. I've even had ones tell me that they DO want something deeper, just to get somewhere with me.

 

Some people have a really good sense of who they can easily convince, manipulate, and use. Be very wary of someone who has cheated on your before, and then comes back.....it should make you wonder what they really want