lvlylady9 Posted February 6, 2006 Posted February 6, 2006 I really messed up with my "bf" last night. It's a very complicated situation, but more or less we are not dating currently. I want to date again, and he wants to as well, but I need to be able to show him that he can date me and not have to worry about getting hurt again. I have changed and have been trying to show him this for the past month and a half. I messed up tonight by totally ruining a chance to get close with him, and messed up even more by not fixing the situation. He is now questioning whether he really does want to be with me and my love for him. I love him with EVERYTHING I have. WHAT CAN I DO TO SHOW HIM THAT I DO LOVE HIM AND WANT TO BE WITH HIM??
smile Posted February 6, 2006 Posted February 6, 2006 Well first of all I would say you need to be a bit more specific about what you did and why he doesn't trust you. If you were on a probation period to begin with and you did something bad, CAN he trust you? I mean can you even garuntee you won't do whatever it is you did , again? Thats as much as I can say without knowing what you did.
silverbeamer Posted February 6, 2006 Posted February 6, 2006 I say that if you messed up "AGAIN" then you're really not that into him. If you were dating someone that you really truly loved and cared for (as you claim you do with this guy) you simply wouldn't mess up. Things are easy when you're in a relationship with someone that you honestly care for... it doesn't always have to be such hard work and you would avoid any and all situations where you might 'mess up' and hurt him. Sometimes the truth hurts...
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