beautifulobscene Posted February 6, 2006 Posted February 6, 2006 Ok, long story short..anyone's advice on this would be appreciated. My ex and I broke up in November (her decision) anyway, been on and off talking since then and then spent some time before Christmas..kinda on again. I get back from my Xmas break and she says again it's not going to work, so I deal with that and get on with it..mentioning to her that we can't be friends right now and not to contact me and I won't be contacting her - that was December. Didn't speak to her for a while and then my Grandfather died mid January and she was the only one I wanted to talk or just to at least know that she was around. So I text her and ask her whether she would like to work on being friends (which she has always pushed for) She says "Yes, but how? I don't want to hurt anymore" which is strange because she never once admitted to her pain. I say "Let's just take it as it comes" .. No reply. 2 weeks later I get a text out of the blue simply saying "Are you home?" and "What are you doing?" I reply back very casually and say "yes, am home..taking it easy, hope everything is good" No reply....! 2 weeks later (today!) I get a text from her saying "Hi, hope everything is well, can you talk to me about being friends - if you can't I understand" I reply back saying "yeah, that's fine. When?" No reply yet... Why am I so confused? I feel like she's playing games? I don't know anymore.. I think her actions are very strange! ???????????????
CaliGuy Posted February 6, 2006 Posted February 6, 2006 You guys! CALL. Texting is so impersonal. If you want to be friends and can handle it, call her.
bendit Posted February 6, 2006 Posted February 6, 2006 Man, let it go. Its DONE. You sound like a young guy. Do you know how much LIFE is left out there for you and it happens to include the opposite sex? Don't CALL. Don't text. LET HER GO and move on with your life apart. You never went NC. You never got any distance. You are still in the muck of this breakup. You are getting bad signs. She does not want you. She just has a hard time saying NO to people and being direct and you have a hard time letting go. This is not going to work. Realize that and face your fear of being alone and start to rebuild your life. There is going to be someone new but not until you get clear of this. regards
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